In the six years of marriage, the wife was pregnant 6 times and miscarried 4 times, and the husband demanded that the wife must give birth to a son, until the 6th pregnancy, the wife finally gave birth to a son. The wife, who had been physically and mentally tortured for six years, suffered from postpartum depression until she met a man whose depression healed...
When Xiao Wang met Xiao Zhou, she was still a young girl who did not know the world, and after a year of dating Xiao Zhou, Xiao Zhou urged her to go through the marriage procedures in order to keep Xiao Wang around.
After getting married, Xiao Wang fell into a nightmare life. Not long after getting married, Xiao Wang became pregnant, and Xiao Zhou went out to work in order to earn money to support his family. From pregnancy to childbirth, Xiao Wang is alone, and many of the hardships can only be experienced by himself.
When giving birth to a child, the mother-in-law accompanied her to the hospital, and the mother-in-law was a little unhappy to see that she had given birth to a daughter. During Xiao Wang's confinement period, there was no one to take care of her, her mother-in-law was busy with farm work in the field, Xiao Wang was young and did not have children, she did not know how to take care of the children, the child cried she also cried, and there was no one around to pour a sip of water for her to drink. A week after giving birth to the child, she learned that Xiao Wang had no one to take care of her, and Xiao Wang's mother took her back to her mother's house.
The husband worked outside the construction site, and no one came back, and even the phone rarely came back. Xiao Wang's heart felt very sad, and what made her feel even more desperate was the attitude of her husband, who after learning that he was giving birth to a daughter, he dropped a sentence: the second child must give birth to a son, if it is a daughter, then beat it!
Only half a year after giving birth to her daughter, Xiao Wang was pregnant again and miscarried due to poor health. Xiao Wang was physically and mentally tortured, but he never received the comfort of her husband's only words, and her husband was always very busy and rarely went home. Whenever Xiao Wang complained, her husband always said: I am desperately trying to earn money outside for you, for this family, I give you all the money I earn, that is, all I can give you.
A year later, Xiao Wang became pregnant again, this time it was difficult to save the fetus to 3 months, but it was found that it was a girl, and her husband said coldly on the phone: Go and beat the child in the belly as soon as possible! Xiao Wang couldn't bear to shed the child in his belly and had been hesitating. Xiao Wang's mother also called her son-in-law: Just give birth to this child, even if you eat and wear a little, a child can always be supported.
However, Xiao Zhou's attitude was very resolute: he could not give birth to this child, he already had a daughter, and he must have another son, otherwise the old Zhou family would be cut off. In desperation, Xiao Wang's mother accompanied her daughter to the hospital for surgery, and Xiao Wang suffered both physical and psychological pain and felt that she was living in a nightmare.
Xiao Wang's task was not yet completed, and in the six years of marriage, she had 6 pregnancies and 4 miscarriages, until the sixth pregnancy and finally gave birth to a son.
After giving birth to a son, Xiao Wang was taken by her husband and went to work with him. In the days together, Xiao Wang did not feel warm. Xiao Zhou is not good at expressing, in addition to working hours, he likes to drink and play cards with his co-workers, Xiao Wang still feels lonely and depressed.
Xiao Wang began to sleep all night, became hysterical when arguing with her husband, and her health was getting worse and worse, and she couldn't eat anything. One day, Xiao Wang went home alone to beat the hanging bottle, and came to a crossroads, and suddenly her brain was blank, and she couldn't remember the way home. She didn't know who she was or who her husband was, only remembered that she had two children.
Xiao Wang did not go to the hospital until he was sick, and the doctor said that Xiao Wang suffered from postpartum depression, needed to take medicine for a long time, and needed to be accompanied. However, the husband still did not realize the seriousness of the problem, went to work as usual, and occasionally took Xiao Wang around.
Xiao Wang's condition has not improved, and he relies on long-term medication to fall asleep. Later, Xiao Wang changed a job, met a man at work, the man saw that Xiao Wang often took medicine, the spirit was also very bad, took the initiative to inquire and care about Xiao Wang, Xiao Wang told the man about the long-suppressed troubles in his heart.
Under the man's enlightenment and comfort, Xiao Wang's condition was greatly alleviated, and her dosage began to gradually decrease, and later she could fall asleep without medication. The warmth obtained from the man is something that Xiao Wang has never received in marriage, and with the improvement of his condition, the relationship between Xiao Wang and the man has also become closer and closer, resulting in feelings.
When Xiao Wang proposed divorce, her husband finally panicked, and after he tried to keep his wife fruitless, he smoked and drank all day, causing heavy bleeding in the digestive tract and being admitted to the hospital. During her husband's hospitalization, Xiao Wang accompanied him and took good care of him, and her husband felt that the feelings between the husband and wife had warmed up. However, Xiao Wang told him that as a relative, she would be anxious and worried if he was sick, but there was no going back between them.
In marriage, the decisive departure is because of enough disappointment, and once the disappointment becomes despair, no matter how you keep it, you will not look back.
What does marriage give to a woman? The torment of pregnancy in October, the pain of childbirth, the hardship of raising a child, if all this depends on the woman to carry alone, then the woman will become strong, since everything is borne by one person, then what is afraid, without anyone can live well.
Marriage is not just a responsibility, women are not tools for procreation, when there is a problem in marriage, when feelings are not responded to, emotions will be shifted. A lot of extramarital affairs are looking for emotional comfort that can't be found in marriage, so when one party cheats, we have to look for the reasons for both parties.
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