Gu Ailing's dialogue with her mother before winning the championship was exposed: the parents of the three views are the greatest wealth of a child! Before the third jump, Gu Ailing actually had two choices, jumping 1440 again

Gu Ailing's dialogue with her mother before winning the championship was exposed: the parents of the three views are the greatest wealth of a child!

Before the third jump, Gu Ailing actually had two choices, jumping 1440 insurance again to win silver, or taking the risk of challenging the 1620 that had never been practiced before

When Gu Ailing called her mother, her mother, out of the overall situation, suggested that she jump 1440 again to win silver steadily, which was a big gamble.

However, Gu Ailing said no, "Because I came to the Olympics not to beat anyone, but to myself." ”

Hearing her daughter say this, the mother did not persuade her again, gave Gu Ailing trust and respect, and just said: "This is your game, enjoy it well." ”

Not all parents can let their children do it completely on their own at such a moment.

To say that Gu Ailing, 3 years old to learn to ski, 14 years old has won 50 gold medals,

He began to represent China in competitions in 19 years, winning 10 world championships in two years, becoming the first world championship double in the history of the International Skating Federation.

In addition, she is also a top school bully. The toefl 1580 score was admitted to Stanford University.

Many people may think that such a good child must have a mother behind what a chicken baby!

But quite the opposite. For Gu Ailing's education, Gu Yan only said three points: the first is to sleep, the second is to study, and the third is to play.

In her eyes, learning to bully or champion is not something that a daughter must do, everything depends on love! After trying out ballet, piano, racing and other hobbies with her daughter, Gu Ailing finally decided to become a skier.

Don't put your own expectations on the child, let her do whatever she wants, and grow wildly.

There are really very few parents who can do this. What parents should bring to their children is never a limited substance, but a spiritual character that can benefit them for a lifetime.

Giving her the utmost respect under limited conditions is a compulsory course for every parent.