Have you ever yelled angrily at your child and been grumpy? Discipline your child often sends your blood pressure soaring, and often feels helpless and isolated? Let's take a look at how this mother on the other side of the ocean coped with this "hard battle". She has 7 cute babies, 22 grandchildren and 18 great-grandchildren. She is The Eminent Psychologist and Educator Jane Nelson in the United States. "Positive Discipline" is her brainchild on the subject of disciplining children. The purpose of positive discipline is clear: to be kind and firm. While sharing their parenting experiences, the authors cite many parenting examples that have benefited from practicing the principles of positive discipline, as well as more than a hundred ready-to-learn positive discipline tools.
Before establishing the principle of positive discipline, she also faced the embarrassment of chicken feathers and the confusion of being overwhelmed. As she describes in her book: "Until one day, I heard myself yelling at the child again, 'I said it a hundred times, put away your toy!'" Suddenly, I understood... How ridiculous, I have to wait until I repeat it a hundred times before I know that my method will not work."
After reading this book, I realized that my previous method of disciplining children was completely negative teaching material, and children may have suffered a lot of unclear harm. This book refreshed my understanding of discipline and taught me how to discipline children without punishment or indulgence. I also sincerely hope that every child can be nourished by a kind and firm language, become self-disciplined, responsible and full of cooperation spirit, and be able to calmly face unknown challenges and uncertainties in life.
A classic that has benefited millions of children, parents and teachers for life, it has sold over 6 million copies worldwide and has been translated into 16 languages. Known as the "golden code" of discipline, I recommend you to read it, it will also bring you new strength in the process of raising children!
