Why do you say that children should make rules early? During the period when children are developing habits, gentle and firm positive discipline is essential

Kids without rules

It's like a boat that has lost its way

During the critical period of good habit formation

It is even more necessary to establish rules as soon as possible

Gentle and firm positive discipline is essential

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1. It is useless to cry, there is something to say well, this is an expression

Many children often give up communication and cry when they encounter difficulties or when unreasonable requests are rejected.

At this time, please first hug him and take him to understand the emotions; then find out the causes of the emotions; then talk about how to express and regulate the emotions; and then help him and find the corresponding way to manage the emotions. Emotions also have a barometer, and it is important to express them.

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2. Not frolicking in places where quiet is needed, this is quality

Preschoolers are generally naughty and playful, but trying not to affect others in public is the most basic courtesy.

3. Not touching other people's things at will, this is self-realization

Before the age of three, children are not forced to share, and after the age of three, children should be guided to share and gradually establish the concept of property rights

Help him to understand the difference between mine, yours, his, and the public.

4. Get up and go to bed on time, it's a habit

The fixed ritual before going to bed every night is very important, quietly read picture books to children, chat, to open the curtains and turn off the lights, and then have a gentle and firm attitude, so that children understand and actively manage the time of day, establish a good routine is a protracted battle, once the start does not give up.

5. It is a responsibility not to run away from the mistakes you have made

Learning to apologize carries a lot of weight in interpersonal interactions, but teaching children to learn to apologize starts with letting him know why he apologizes.

First guide him to empathy, but also let him learn to take responsibility for his actions. After understanding the feelings of the other party (person or thing), and then having the courage to take responsibility, the apology is the most sincere and most soothing.

6. Learning to live from taking on housework is independence

Learning to sweep the floor is to let him understand the simple concept of environmental protection; tidying up the desktop is to let him understand the convenience of storage; things return to their original position, is to let him know the importance of cleanliness.

In the process of helping parents share the housework, children will have a deep understanding of one thing. It will give him the ability to pursue a comfortable and happy life in his future life. And at any time, you can have the heart to adapt to stress and live a good life.

7. Not saying dirty words, not doing indecent things, this is upbringing

The reason why children can say dirty words is first of all to imitate the people around them, and secondly, to get attention. Parents must intervene in time after hearing their children say dirty words and do indecent things.

In addition to teaching and paying attention to the child on a daily basis, it is also necessary to gently accompany the child when he has an emotional outburst. Not overreacting to something, listening to his inner feelings, and then discussing the matter of swear words with the child will be more effective.

8. Not judging others' character is respect

The water is silent, and the people are steady. Teach children to respect the hard work of others, see the shining points of each person, and learn to be kind to others, and others will be kind to you.

9. Doing one thing without distraction is concentration

Being able to focus on one thing before school will automatically filter out all kinds of sounds from the outside world, and after elementary school, you will not be distracted by difficult classroom content.

Each child has his own favorite things to do, and when they focus on one thing, reducing distractions and not disturbing them will make him happy and confident in the future learning process.

10. It is a principle not to bully or pander to others

One of the things that children are most afraid of as a child is that they don't play with me, they are afraid of being isolated, and they are afraid that losing friends will make a child slowly and passively cater to and become more and more conformist.

In the process of educating children, a sense of identity and security is very important, not only to allow children to find their own place in small groups, but also to let him establish a correct view of right and wrong, to teach him that everything does not need to be perfect, just need to be good enough to be himself.

There are no shortcuts or miracles in education

A seed grows into a large tree

Requires careful care

Holding hands and letting go are both indispensable

A seed that grows in love and rules

It will take root one day

Even if it is stormy and rainy

This small tree will also grow straight upwards

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