The mental "trauma" we encounter in childhood is a psychological habit in a relationship. When we were very young, the psychological experience of this trauma was unbearable, and we chose it

The mental "trauma" we encounter in childhood is a psychological habit in a relationship.

When we were very young, the psychological experience of this trauma was unbearable, and we chose to avoid or ignore the way we handled it, and over time we formed a habitual mental pattern.

When we grow up, we can change this psychological habit and choose a more mature and rational attitude and way to face the conflict in the relationship and break through the shackles of "destiny".