Although husband and wife need to be in the same heart, even if they have lived for decades, the views of the two people are still different. Yesterday, I saw the video of the end-of-year quarrel between the big Internet celebrity Li Jie and her brother-in-law. Although everyone

Although husband and wife need to be in the same heart, even if they have lived for decades, the views of the two people are still different.

Yesterday, I saw the video of the end-of-year quarrel between the big Internet celebrity Li Jie and her brother-in-law. Although everyone thinks that they are acting or hype, after watching it, I feel that this event is also close to our lives. The refrigerator incident in their house has also happened in our house many times. Sister Li said that Lao Xin's cold war is not good, and I think lao Xin has a thousand words in his heart mainly to say that He can't say that Sister Li can't choose not to say.

The role of our family is actually the opposite of Sister Li, our husband retired at home, the income has decreased a lot, so that our family's annual income has dropped from more than fifty years old to less than fifty, but this does not affect our overall quality of life.

The problem is that my mentality has changed, I feel that I am the pillar of money in the family, and the way I look at the affairs of the family has changed.

My husband is idle at home, and I have a lot of requirements for him in my heart, such as at home, can I do more housework?

Can you do some errands? Can the big things and small feelings of the old people in the family not come to trouble me, you trouble me.

Have some laundry cleanup home you do a little more, I do a little less? The part-time worker aunt is coming, and you don't have to greet me.

I have to say that my husband's subjective initiative is very good, washing clothes, cleaning up the house, picking up me and my daughter, and big things and small things he really bears a lot, it can be said that it is better than most of the men on the headlines. Although he retired, his income was also around 10,000.

But there is still a gap between my expectations and the actual ability and subjective initiative of the other party.

For example, the expired food in this refrigerator, we also have some disputes.

The man's requirements for the quality of life are still a little different from ours, and when he first comes out, I think he will be like me, and he will make lunch very delicate and good by himself.

So I will prepare more ingredients in the refrigerator, what steak, ribs, whole chicken or whatever, and some small pieces of small seafood like doha, scallops, eels, shrimp. I also put some vegetables in the refrigerator, and I even buy some fruits to eat. He did not object to not supporting, every day at noon out of the door to turn right to the door of the small shop a plate of dumplings or a bowl of wontons.

Until one day I found that some ingredients were expired, some dishes were hairy, and the fruit was rotten.

I got angry and our argument began.

I think it hurts me to spend money to buy something so expired, is the money I earn blown by the wind?

He meant that his life alone should be so complicated, but also to open fire, just eat enough, this is my wishful thinking!

I was also very angry at the time, and now that I think about it, after all, it is two people, and their attitudes and requirements towards life are still a little different

Lao Xin is also, making money is him, the top beam is him, although Li Jie also makes money by shooting videos, he still has a lot of expectations for Li Jie.

The greater the gap between the ideal wife and the real wife, the more dissatisfaction there will be.

When Lao Xin asked Sister Li to tidy up the refrigerator, Sister Li refused, and then put out so many expired foods in the refrigerator, it was a natural manifestation to be angry. The difference is that Sister Li has made people run away from home. I just got angry for a while and then put it down.

Quarrels are too normal, and it is also good to watch other people's videos, watch yourself, and make yourself more peaceful.

Now I pay 10 yuan a day for our family from the unit canteen to bring him a box lunch, and he is very useful.