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These manifestations of men in love, it seems to love you very much, are actually thin to the bone. Many women always lose their minds when they are in deep love, and often can't tell what is true love and what is

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These manifestations of men in love, it seems to love you very much, are actually thin to the bone.

Many women will always lose their minds when they are deeply in love, and they often can't tell what is true love, what is hypocrisy, and what is willful. Because of this, they are more vulnerable in love than ordinary people.

If you think about it, the reason for the injury is not only that person, but also that you don't know how to distinguish between people's hearts. If you're not so naïve in the beginning, you won't be repeatedly frustrated in love.

Many times, men are good at disguise in love.

He makes you think you've met true love, but he actually has another purpose. Whether a man is affectionate or fickle can actually be seen. There are three distinct differences.

During intercourse, if a man frequently exhibits the following three manifestations, then he is just pretending to love you very much. In fact, he is fickle in his bones. Be sure to see it early.

One: Try to change you on the grounds of love instead of supporting you to be yourself.

There are no two identical leaves in this world, and no two identical people. Everyone is an individual, a unique being. If a man really loves you, he will definitely love you for who you really are, without any disguises or masks. Otherwise, it can only show that his love is superficial, or even not at all.

In love, if a man always tries his best to change you and doesn't support you to be himself, be vigilant. His love for you is overbearing, overbearing, overbearing, and selfish on the other.

True love should make people feel comfortable and comfortable. If you always doubt yourself, then this is not the best love.

The person who loves you will not deny you, will not suppress you, will only trust you and support you. Only by keeping this in mind can you be unharmed in love.

Two: I control you on the grounds of love, can't always sit on an equal footing with you, and have great disrespect for you.

Controlling desire, from a psychological point of view, is a mental illness.

Such a person always imposes his own thoughts and desires on others, forcing others to live according to their own wishes. If the other party refuses, they will be furious and even control them by any means.

This kind of person does not love you, but hurts you in the name of love. He will never be able to sit on an equal footing with you or truly respect you.

Because in his mind, you are not an independent individual, but an appendage of him.

So, during intercourse, if you find that a man always controls you in the name of love and forces you to live the way he thinks, be sure to keep an eye on him. He may not really love you.

Three: Kidnapping you in the name of love will make you gradually lose your principles, bottom line and confidence in love.

The most helpless and powerless thing in the world is this kind of emotional kidnapping in the name of love.

Men stand on the moral high ground and interfere with your choices in the name of their own interests. The foundation of love is equality and respect. If it is really good for a person, then it is necessary to accept her choice instead of replacing your own will with your own will.

Men who call themselves "good for you" end up doing it all for themselves.

He is acutely aware of the risks that may exist in the decision you are about to make and doesn't want to know why you made the decision. He just uses simple and crude methods to avoid risks, and doesn't even give you the opportunity to try.

Men who like to say "for your own good" neither respect your temperament nor the courage to face risks with you. A pale sentence that is good for you can only reflect his selfishness and thin feelings.

To truly love someone, it should not be to help her make decisions, but to give her the right to choose. It's better to say "I'm here" than to say "I'm here for your own good", and it has a strong dad flavor.

You can choose for yourself, and whatever the outcome, I'll be behind you.

Love is not about changing each other, but growing together. I will let you do what you want to do, and I am your strongest backing. This is equal love.

True love and false love are often fundamentally different.

In order to avoid being hurt in love, please determine the personality of the other party before entering a relationship, determine whether the way you get along is what you want, whether you feel comfortable.

Don't waste time consuming yourself in the wrong love, this is the real gain is not worth the loss.

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