The diversity and richness of "life experience" plays a key role in the matter of delisting. But in fact, not only off the list, but also after the relationship! The lifestyle is too monotonous, or even lazy, it is likely that your attraction to your partner will gradually decline. If it is reduced to two people who only care about sliding mobile phones, chasing dramas and playing mobile games, the lack of intersection will unconsciously destroy the relationship. How can I avoid it?
If the two parties are in a situation of "cohabitation" or "marriage and living under the roof", we need to think about how to create a "common experience" at home, that is, send out a team invitation for the two to do something together. Here are a few suggestions:
Secret one, movies & dramas
Going to the cinema must be the top three for many couples to date, what if you can't go now? Fortunately, with the development of online streaming, you can also watch movies or albums at home. Starting from the time of finalization and the selection of the film, it is to increase the interaction between the two people. If the types you want to see are very different, it is also a good way to pick today and change your choice tomorrow. The point is not "what to see," but "look together."
Remember to briefly talk about your experience (no need to talk at length, you are not writing a thesis), impressive fragments, characters or pictures, and find extenuating topics from the plot. For example, if you re-watch the classic movie "The Lord of the Rings", you can talk about topics such as: New Zealand, traveling abroad, camping and mountain climbing experience, an interesting story that almost died in the snow, the past of going to the cinema with classmates to see midnight, going to the Lord of the Rings restaurant in Taipei, and other favorite fantasy literature. These are all topics that both parties can share in turn and increase their understanding of each other. Don't "just look at it", it's a pity for the time you spent.
Tip two, tidy up the home environment
Usually busy with work, it is easy to ignore the surrounding environment. Take advantage of the increase in time at home, you may wish to start tidying up, but also train your ability to break away, recycle or discard things that you don't need to use, and make more space. Planning with your partner, buying new furniture and appliances, decorating the home environment, changing the furnishings that you are tired of, etc., can make each other look forward to the future of life. Through the freshness of the environment, inject some new vitality into the feelings! In addition, sorting out photos of past dates on your phone is also a way to do it. After all, you can't go out on a date now, so relive the good memories of the past!
Tip 3: Cooking
Of course, I know that epidemic prevention is at home, and calling for delivery is the most convenient and safe way. But occasionally cooking with your partner is also a joie de vivre. If you're both newbies, don't have to make a full table of good food without having to set yourself too high a goal, start by making each other a sandwich (simple enough). recipe? Google and YouTube have too much teaching, and it is equally convenient to order this book from a blog. Although the epidemic is heating up, it is not difficult to go out to buy an ingredient at present, most of the things in the fresh supermarket are still enough, and there is no need to grab it and do not have to worry about not being able to buy it. Remember to stop buying instant noodles and trying them out with different ingredients!
So what if the partner is a chef in itself? Don't throw it to each other, easily slide your mobile phone next to yourself, help buy, prepare, try to eat, and then make up a hug to say that it is hard, brush up on the sense of participation is very important!
"Wait, but I don't live with my partner, and now it's like a distant relationship?" 」
Don't worry, there are long-distance practices. All three can still invite each other to "try it out together in different places", for example, if you watch a movie at home (the same movie or each of them), and use it as chat material. Or share the results of your own environment, record videos, live video, and evaluate each other is also a pleasure. (Of course, I want to have an unboxed film to let the other party see the new furniture and toys you started)
In addition to increasing the topic, continuous improvement of personal charm is also the focus. So you can also:
Tip 1: Simple exercise
Of course, there are many inconveniences without the gym, but now there are many simple retraining tools that can be done at home, and Google can find a whole bunch of them. As for aerobic exercise, in addition to buying a small flywheel to step on at home, cycling up and down stairs is also a simple exercise that I often do.
Of course, these effects are not as good as you run the gym, nor are you as good as going outside to run and swim, but during the epidemic period, there are always some cuts, and it is better to do than not do a good job, not to mention that when you buy new equipment, or develop new exercise methods yourself, you can also become a chat topic.
Tip 2: Self-directed learning
There are too many learning channels now, whether it is an online course platform, Youtube or buying a book to read, I am not afraid that you will not be able to learn. Since you have more time at home, take this opportunity to improve your connotation! Find one or two topics that you are interested in, contact and study through the channels you like, remember to write down your experience, share the fun in the process with each other, your new understanding and learning, don't cross the water without a trace!
Spend more time at home, but don't hold the "I'm lazy" mentality. Be sure to continue to create life experience, increase the intersection of the two sides, and maintain interaction, so that you can have both epidemic prevention and love!