I believe that when every girl first got married, she wanted to do her best to integrate into this new family, even if she suffered some losses, she also hoped to be able to do a good job in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But when you live with your mother-in-law after marriage, you find that some mother-in-law is not something you can exchange for true feelings!
What is particularly important is that when the daughter-in-law enters the door, there will always be some mother-in-law who deliberately harasses the daughter-in-law with some inexplicable introduction, and even famously calls it the rule, this is the custom, and it really makes many young women have words of suffering.
Recently, a Jiangxi woman working in Guangdong has just held her own wedding, plus it is the New Year's time, the whole family is full of happiness and joy, and this woman is treated warmly by her husband and mother-in-law, and has spent the most memorable New Year in her life.
But what the woman did not expect was that on the third day after her marriage, the mother-in-law called the woman up early in the morning, claiming that this day was very important, and some customs and rules still had to be observed, and the woman must complete it.
Some women who do not know the truth are also confused, but as young people, they really do not understand many customs and habits, so although they are a little confused, they still start to prepare early in the morning with their mother-in-law.
In the process of preparation, the woman learned in her mother-in-law's mouth what she would face in a moment! It turns out that this so-called custom is that the mother-in-law has to give the kitchen to herself, and all the processes represent all the work in the kitchen in the family in the future, which is to be handed over to the woman.
Subsequently, the prepared mother-in-law also placed a bamboo basket at the door, and then put a firecracker in it and lit it, accompanied by a crackling sound, the mother-in-law turned and went to the kitchen. Seeing that the woman was still standing motionless in the doorway, the mother-in-law grabbed the woman's arm and dragged her directly into the kitchen!
After the two people walked to the stove, the mother-in-law directly picked up a bowl of beans and poured it into the pot, and then let the woman pick up the shovel and constantly stir-fry and pull, after a toss, the mother-in-law also sealed a large red envelope for the woman, which was officially completed.
In this regard, many netizens are extremely dissatisfied, thinking that such customs are bad habits, is it possible to marry a daughter-in-law in order to come to the family as a nanny?
In the face of the condemnation of most netizens, the woman also appeared to explain, claiming that this is just a custom, although the mother-in-law said that this is a kitchen handover ceremony, but after that, she did not let herself cook and wash around the stove, and still made a meal every day to wake herself up.
It's just that the old people are superstitious for the happiness of their children's lives, but no matter how their mother-in-law is always very good to themselves, these so-called rituals and customs are just walking around!
Senyama felt
To be honest, after seeing the first half of the video shared by the woman, what Qianshan had in mind was that this move was a little too disrespectful to women. Although it is said that the married man dresses and eats, this does not mean that both husband and wife must serve one party to the other, regardless of men and women, let alone generations.
However, after the woman's explanation, I learned that this is just a good wish of the old man for the children, in order to make the little two people live better, many old people for the so-called customs are "prefer to believe that it is not credible", even if many young people do not understand, but will still withstand the pressure to do a good job.
Of course, with the development of the times, people's concepts and ideas have also begun to change, no longer as feudal and superstitious as in the old society, holding the old way and refusing to give up. In addition, many women nowadays are no longer willing to swallow their voices, and their careers and lives are even more grasped, and they are completely indifferent to the set of the elderly.
And in order for everyone to get along better, as long as it is not a needle to Mai Mang, almost no old people will deliberately go to the daughter-in-law, and as a daughter-in-law, there are very few people who hold on to the pigtails, so nowadays many families even have some incomprehensible customs, but most of them are just face projects!
I sincerely wish this woman a happy and happy life after marriage, and it is not difficult to see that marrying into this family that looks forward to the goodness of her children and grandchildren and is willing to suffer and work hard will definitely not let the woman be wronged!