Yesterday, the word "genius" was widely mentioned by everyone, and "genius girl" Gu Ailing also entered the public's sight, inspiring the hearts of every citizen.
When the third jump was clearly stable, she resolutely chose the difficulty of 1620, which she had never challenged, and did an excellent job, getting a high score of 94.50.
And she said, "1620 only thought in my head, I didn't snow, I didn't go on a trampoline, I practiced on the air cushion for two days."
This is really the chosen son, she is a genius born for skiing, no matter the courage and talent is top-notch!
However, behind every genius, it is inseparable from the care of her parents, and the success of Gu Ailing is also inseparable from the hard work of her mother, Gu Yan.
When it comes to difficulties, I am always by her side
Many people will think that such an excellent child must have a "tiger mother" behind it.
However, in Gu Ailing's eyes, her mother is not a "tiger mother", but a "rabbit mother". She will let Ailing sleep enough for ten hours a day to maintain a healthy body; She will drive Ailing for 8 hours every weekend to ski, and she will also take Ailing back to Beijing to study the Olympics every summer...
She never worries about Ailing's grades, but gives her meticulous companionship in all aspects of life and study.
Especially when Ai Ling encountered difficulties, she stood resolutely and firmly by her side, and once, Ai Ling skied and fell over her head and fell into a brief amnesia, she cried and said "it hurts".
As a professional coach, Gu Yan is very distressed, after all, she regards her daughter's safety as extremely important. But the road of skiing is destined to be full of pain.
As a mother, the only thing she can do is to always be with her daughter, overcome her fears with her, and be a strong sea god needle.
And this kind of love and caring companionship is the greatest support for Ailing on the road to success, so that she is not afraid of all the wind and rain and challenges, and she has no scruples to move forward and challenge herself, and the spirit of yesterday's third jump is the best witness.
The choice is yours and I hope you can enjoy the game
Gu Yan also has a point that is worth learning from all mothers, that is, she only does the compass on the road of children's growth, but does not replace and does not do everything.
It is also this that has allowed Ailing's ability to be fully developed, and her hobbies have been very extensive since she was a child: piano, ballet, football, horse riding, volleyball, tennis... As long as Ai Ling wanted, Gu Yan would support it.
Even in the third jump before the Olympics, Gu Yan suggested jumping 1440 at that time, which could save the silver medal without accident, but when Ailing said that she wanted to be difficult, she only said a sentence :Well, the choice is yours, I hope you can enjoy the game." ”
She knows that Ailing is an independent individual, and children do not walk in the path they have formulated for themselves, so that they have a bright future and life. On the contrary, Ai Ling has a transcendent self in her heart, she is eager to become excellent, and she has her own wonderful.
As a mother, she can plan for a while, but she can't be responsible for a lifetime, and the only thing she can do is to protect Ai Ling's creativity from an early age, encourage her more, and let her hobbies be fully exerted.
Truly intelligent parents will not impose their own expectations on their children, let alone "do things for" their children.
They will protect the child's internal drive, only in this way can the child have the ability to surpass herself upwards, so as to follow the trajectory of her own chosen life.
You don't have to go to Stanford, and the most important thing is to never give up studying for the rest of your life
The explosion of Gu Ailing has made many parents think about how to chicken out of the next Gu Ailing, but everyone has ignored the excellence of her mother Gu Yan herself.
She graduated from Peking University and is a famous biologist and one of the experts in the synthetic bovine insulin - the closed disciple of Professor Shen Tong...
At the age of 22, he went to the United States to study and received a full scholarship from Aoben University with a master's degree in biology. Later, he studied at Stanford University in the United States and obtained a master's degree in business administration (MBA) ...
It is precisely because of her excellence that Gu Ailing has been inspired to emulate her mother since she was a child, serious and self-disciplined, and positive. She told her mother countless times that she also wanted to go to Stanford, but her mother said, "You don't have to go to Stanford, you go to any school, as long as you like it." But the most important thing is not to give up learning for a lifetime. ”
In the process of accompanying children to grow, the biggest impact on children is not what we do for them, but what kind of people we have become.
Ai Ling once said in an interview: "I really think that my mother is the best mother, really better than all the mothers, because she makes more things than other mothers..." "Grandma and mother are the women I most "admire", they are very confident, very brave, very powerful."
Many parents on the Internet said: "I don't expect to have a child like Gu Ailing, but I hope to become a mother like Gu Ailing's mother."
Indeed, words are not as good as teaching by example, although we are not as good as Gu Yan, although we have not grown up, but as long as we do not stop growing, this is the best experience and strength for children.
May all mothers be able to work with their children on this road of parenting, always upward, and never stop growing.
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