As soon as Gu Ailing won the championship, the circle of friends and Weibo began to frantically swipe her photos and growth experiences.
A genius girl, a sparkling existence like a ziwei star, someone else's child... A few days ago, the Winter Olympics opened, a college classmate discussed with me late at night, you say how such an excellent girl was trained?
"People" published a report that outlined in detail Gu Ailing's growth path. After reading it, many people were impressed by one of the pages, which said that Gu would return to China every summer vacation to take a high math class in Haidian Huangzhuang cram school and ten days of classes in China, which was equivalent to studying in the United States for one year.
It's like lighting up a bright light for the parents of domestic chicken babies, look, the child is really not rolled up. A gifted girl like Gu Ailing needs to go to math cram school to go to Stanford, should my child work harder?
There is a saying in Chinese that if you eat bitterly, you will be a superior person.
But after reading all the reports of Gu Ailing, I found that this is really not a girl who was educated by her mother's chicken blood.
She liked it first, and she began to like skiing from the age of three, and then slowly entered the industry. Secondly, her mother originally chose speed skiing for her, and she chose more dangerous and exciting freestyle skiing herself, and also challenged the movements that female athletes had never done before.
I think most Chinese parents can't accept this dangerous sport. A few days ago, when talking about Su Yiming on Weibo, some readers have said that she would never let a child do this sport, and there is such a baby egg at home.
The winter Olympic games are very exciting, and most of the games can make people watch wow and scream. When I first watched the big jumping race of freestyle skiing, I thought it was too dangerous, what if I fell? After that, sure enough, there was always a player who jumped up and spun around a few times, and one of them was unstable and fell on the snow, and there was a cry of surprise around him. The narrator also explained at the time that although the athletes were young, they had suffered large and small injuries.
You can chicken a child to play the piano and learn math, but you can chicken she said, go, you jump, why don't you dare to dance?
A lot of reports about genius, will focus on how she can bear the hardships, in the training in the game of the fracture concussion, think about it or continue the sport, you see, wow, really remarkable, suffering from this kind of suffering but also to do sports.
It seems that we have become accustomed to the fact that genius is such a person, who has suffered a lot and suffered a lot, and finally won a brilliant victory. That sentence is called, the sword blade comes out of the grinding, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from the bitter cold.
Few people think that she really likes it, skiing itself is a very obsessive thing, and the sport has a magic that people can't give up. The most important thing is that most people in China have not actually skied snow.
A few years ago, my circle of friends often had middle-class couples who went skiing in Hokkaido with their children, and one year during the Spring Festival, I remember sharing that they were stranded at the airport because of the widespread heavy snowfall and wanted to return after skiing. Not long after, I watched the news and found that Li Jiaxin was also stranded at the same airport, and immediately realized, Wow, what an expensive sport skiing is.
In "Paris Is Never Over," Hemingway wrote about the feeling of skiing, "We put our ankles together, leaned low as we slid, leaned forward to increase speed, and kept sliding down in the gentle sizzle of the brittle powdery ice." It's better than anything from flying..."
It's a wonderful, highly addictive sport that, once mastered, has endless fun.
In the spring of 19, our family went to learn surfing, I thought I would never learn, and then I thought, idle is also idle, why not try? After spending an afternoon, I suddenly mastered the skill of getting up from the board, and this ecstasy and sense of accomplishment was like suddenly opening the door to a new world.
For the next few days, every day I would eagerly probe out of the window of the homestay to see how the waves on the beach were, big enough.
When I float on the surface of the sea with my whole body clutching my surfboard, the only thing I do is to stare at the blue-green sea behind me from time to time to see if I can catch the waves. When the waves come, you climb up the board with a bang, use the speed of that instant surge, stand on the tip of the wave, and then slide out a long arc, and this smooth and pleasant feeling fills the whole body.
Surfing is wonderful, known as green opium, skiing, is white opium.
Later, I often wondered when I would have to learn to surf again. If you haven't washed the waves, you will feel that all day, soaking in the sea, being overturned by the big waves again and again, it looks too bitter, surfing, it is really not easy.
Skiing is the same, of course, such a move is related to hard training, but more important than hard training, she loves this sport more, and people who don't love it must not take such a risk.
In a passage in the interview, Gu Ailing said that her mother is not a tiger mother, but a rabbit mother, which probably means that her mother is very supportive of her, as long as she likes it.
I think of Cai Mei'er, the tiger mother, who forced her two daughters to practice more than six hours a day, and the book said many times that her children will become outstanding violinists in the future. Although she hates practicing now, she will thank herself in the future.
When watching "Tiger Mother Battle Song", I often think that the mother who forced the child to practice the piano really had the willpower of steel. Tiger mom has a typical Chinese parenting logic, children do not understand things, adults must find ways to force their success out.
Tiger Mom also has a logic, in addition to classical music, such as drumming, which is a degenerate music that is not on the table. like? You have to suffer and you have to learn the instrument of my choice.
In The Tiger Mother's view, happiness is a sin, and childhood is a stage of basic training, shaping personality and investing in the future.
You shouldn't be happy, and if you're too happy, you won't succeed in the future. Your childhood should be a preparatory activity after another, making sure you must surpass your peers.
I didn't dare to say before that her set was wrong. Now think about it, the real mistake of the chicken baby is that you never care what the children like, you spend all kinds of ways to urge the child to be motivated, and in the end it is just a great self-touching.
Look, I'm a responsible enough mom, and I've never let a kid waste time.
A person can produce a huge and continuous self-driving force for what he loves.
This is the same as the parents urged ten thousand times, why don't you care, why don't you understand things, it's two different things.
What children like, in fact, can be seen. It's just that many children like things that are regarded by parents, what does this have to do with success? Isn't that?
A genius like Gu Ailing cannot be sought. The parenting experience of geniuses cannot be applied to ordinary people in any way. It is not that if you succeed in one Gu Ailing, you can mass-produce countless Gu Ailing.
But compared with other geniuses, the one thing I pay the most attention to is that she is really happy, it is a joy from the heart.