Now that most schools have opened, it is reasonable to say that winter vacation homework has become a thing of the past, but the teachers do not intend to let those students who "fell into famine" during the winter vacation slide over so easily, and order them to go home and make up the winter vacation homework under the supervision of their parents. It is only a twenty-day homework during the holiday, and it is not easy to make up for it in a weekend, so the parents are "eight immortals crossing the sea - each showing their magic", trying their best to let the children "make up for the dead sheep", but the results seem to be not ideal.
A few days ago, a "god beast" dead or alive do not write homework, Jiangsu a "tiger mother" brought a brazier, the next scene is too unexpected" video spread on the Internet, triggered the attention and hot discussion of netizens, have said that they also have the same kind of children at home, what methods have been used, writing homework or push three obstacles, grinding and chirping, it seems that it is time to release the "big move" of "tiger mother" in the video.
In the video, a mother in Suzhou, Jiangsu Province, "god operation", so that the little girl who does not want to do homework at home is frightened and obedient. According to the introduction in the video, the daughter usually loves to play, does not like to learn, in the days before the start of school, the homework is still a lot of unfinished, the child himself is not in a hurry, the mother can be anxious.
In a hurry, the child's mother came up with a way to bring a brazier and throw her daughter's books into the brazier and burn them. In the video, the mother of the child stands in front of the fire with her child, watching one book after another turn to ashes. The little girl lowered her head deeply, frightened on the spot, and did not dare to say anything.
In fact, the mother burns only the books that the child usually does not use much, and this is also done to scare the daughter. I didn't expect the effect to be quite good, the girl saw that her mother was really angry, and obediently made up for her homework. After the video spread, some netizens left a message saying: "Empathy, this mother did what she wanted to do but did not do." Some netizens also questioned this way of education for mothers, believing that this kind of intimidating education method is easy to cause psychological shadows on children and is not advisable.
I think this mother is also really anxious, there is really no other way, can only use a more intense way to remind her daughter that she must complete her homework. However, such "intimidation" forms of education should indeed be used with caution, because it is like the last money of the poor, and if it fails, there is no more to think of. And this way can only be used occasionally, and the more it is used, the more it will have no effect.
I remember when I was a child, because of greed, I often did not complete my homework, and my mother beat and scolded, but the effect was not good, and I would repeat it in two days. In the end, my mother had no choice, and in a rage, she threw my school bag into the river, and I could only stand on the shore and watch the school bag drift farther and farther away, knowing that my mother was really desperate.
Because there was no book, my mother let me stay at home, followed her up the mountain every day to cut firewood, work in the field, and after three or five days I couldn't stand it, and knelt down and begged my mother to let me go to school. My mother re-found me a set of teaching materials, and since then, I have never finished my homework, so my grades have improved a lot.
But this approach is not effective for everyone, and Uncle Wang next door also borrowed from his mother's practice, but Xiao Wang's classmates returned home like a dragon returning to the sea, preferring to do farm work at home and never want to go back to school to study. Therefore, such an extreme education method should be used cautiously, otherwise the child will feel that the parents have been poor in skills, not only can not get the educational effect, but also may trigger a rebellious psychology, counterproductive.