As the saying goes, the female junior holds the gold brick. That is to say, if in love or marriage, the woman is 3 years older than the man, it is like holding a gold brick and can steal the fun.
Nowadays, "sister-brother love" is also popular, women can take more care of men, and men can also bring more vitality to women.
But if it is a husband and wife relationship, how many years is the difference between the two people?
Some people say that the difference of 3 or 5 years is the "best age difference". Because the two have a certain age gap, the larger party will be more mature than the smaller one, and it will know how to take care of each other more. Moreover, this number is not very different, so that the two people will not have too much difference in concept.
However, some studies say that the difference of 7 years between husband and wife is a more appropriate age difference. Because of this gap, it can make the feelings between husband and wife more harmonious, and having children can also occupy a lot of advantages.
One: Children are healthier
Studies have shown that 24-30 years old is the best age for women to have children. At this stage, women have good physical fitness, strong recovery ability, and relatively energetic energy. Whether it is breastfeeding or bringing a baby, it is dominant.
And the baby born by the woman at this stage will make the child healthier. Because the older you get, the higher the risk of a Weddown baby or other conditions.
If a man gets married and has children at the age of 30-35, his career has basically stabilized, and his life schedule is more regular.
When both dad and mom are in relatively good shape, the children born are relatively good, both physically and intellectually.
Two: can give children a better growth environment
If the age difference between husband and wife is relatively small, for example, the mother is 24 years old and the father is also 24 years old. At this time, the savings of the two may be relatively small. In order to give the baby a better living environment, the two will work harder.
At this time, the mother may wean the child early and return to the workplace. Dads also have to work harder to support their children's living and schooling expenses.
In this case, the child may spend less time with mom and dad. This is not good for growth.
But if the difference between husband and wife is 7 years, it shows that at least one of the spouses has established a foothold in the career and has a stable income. At this time, the family conditions will not be too cramped, and the mother can also spend more time taking care of the baby and give the baby a better growth environment.
Not only that, there is a material basis for protection, and the mother can also have richer nutrition when she is pregnant. After the baby is born, the husband and wife will not quarrel over financial problems.
Growing up in such a harmonious family environment, children will be healthier and happier.
Three: Dad has a stronger sense of family responsibility
If a man becomes a father at a relatively young age, he is still in the time of free pursuit of personality. Even if you enter marriage, you will inevitably think of playing a little more.
But if a man forms a family at a mature and stable age, his sense of responsibility will be stronger. He not only thinks more comprehensively, but also has a more mature mentality, and is easy to understand his wife and children.
Moreover, being a father at a more mature age makes it easier for a child to evoke his paternal love. He knows how to cherish the family and children more, and the family relationship will be more harmonious and stable.
Fourth: the social experience is richer
When a man enters marriage at a mature and stable age, he has more social experience and more extensive experience. He will look at the problem from multiple angles, rather than a single perspective to evaluate and understand a person.
Such men will better understand women's difficulties in the family. Moreover, he will better understand his wife's efforts in the family. When women encounter difficulties in their families and careers, men can give certain advice and help.
However, if the husband and wife are the same age, men generally mature later than women, at this time, women will inevitably feel a little tired. Coupled with family and workplace pressures, the two may be prone to disputes.
So, in marriage, a little older men make women feel more secure.
However, the "optimal age difference" is not absolute. It is not that the difference between husband and wife is so big, the relationship between the two people must be good, and the children must be happier. Whether marriage and family are harmonious or not, it is more necessary for both parties to understand and support, so that they can build a warm and friendly family for their children.
Write at the end:
The quality of a relationship is not affected by one factor, but a combination of factors. If you want to maintain a happy family, both parties need to make an effort.
Do you think the age difference between husband and wife is better?
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