As the most unsightly old man among his brothers and sisters, at first Zhou Bingkun did not care about his appearance in the eyes of everyone, until his brother and sister were admitted to college, and the atmosphere at home underwent some subtle changes.
This change is even more pronounced, especially when Zhou Bingyi brought the daughter of the provincial governor and Zhou Rong returned to the Guangzi area with the famous poets.
In the special period many years ago, when the environment was not good, Zhou Bingkun did not feel where the gap between himself and his brother and sister who had a few more books was. However, when his brother and sister were regarded by the neighbors as a shining lintel to go home for the New Year, he finally realized the gap in his heart.
The older brothers and sisters cultivate their minds, and even if they are not around their parents, they are still regarded as the pride of the Zhou family. Zhou Bingkun, an old knot who stayed at home, also dedicated his years to the family, but he was always a dou who could not be supported in the eyes of Zhou Zhigang. Finally, Zhou Zhigang and his "indisputable" young son broke out into a most direct conflict.
In the waiting room that was about to go to Chongqing, Zhou Zhigang had the intention of letting Zhou Bingkun send him.
Zhou Zhigang, who has been strong all his life, did not have a comfortable Spring Festival, and originally wanted to give his own family a heart, but who could think of letting his children be wronged in the family of his in-laws. Even if the daughter is very wanton, in Zhou Zhigang's eyes, Zhou Rong is still that intimate little cotton jacket.
However, only his own young son, from childhood, the results are very poor, after growing up, there is no opportunity to go to the mountains and go to the countryside, it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law, but she is pregnant with someone else's child.
Zhou Zhigang is not worried about the younger son's future care for himself, he is more worried about the future when Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong graduate from college and the gap between Zhou Bingkun will widen even more.
Whether to let him go unchecked or reduce his resentment towards another relatively successful child, Zhou Zhigang chose the latter, and he still hoped that the old knots of the Zhou family could achieve something in the future.
Zhou Bingkun went from the slagging workshop of the soy sauce factory to the salesman to do sales, and he had no knowledge level and could only do it in his own way. This is what Zhou Zhigang is most worried about, compared to Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong, Zhou Bingkun has no competitiveness at all. The soy sauce factory is a seemingly stable unit, but with the great changes in the environment, this stable unit will not be stable in the future.
It is often said that the most difficult words are spoken to those closest to them. Zhou Bingkun originally thought that his father would change his mind about himself because he took care of the whole family, but when he heard his father roar at him in public, and even took out the old bottom of raising other people's children, he once hoped that his father would have a glimmer of hope for his own change.
Many people see Zhou Zhigang's attitude towards his son, and their hearts can't help but cross a trace of coldness. Is the Zhou family's old knot so unlikable? Even a little recognition is fine.
But Zhou Zhigang knew his son, and Zhou Bingkun was already aware of his gap, but there was almost an opportunity for him to change. And Zhou Zhigang's seemingly ruthless words became the best time for Zhou Bingkun to change himself.
The unhappiness with his father at the station made Zhou Bingkun realize a problem: he had listened to his family since he was a child, so that what he did now was not worth mentioning, let alone being able to take it like his brother and sister. Therefore, after Zhou Bingkun left the station, he directly found Shao Jingwen without saying a word.
Shao Jingwen, like Secretary Qu and Ma Shouchang, always looked at and treated Zhou Bingkun differently and differently at the person in front of him, who did not have a high level of education, but was very kind.
Therefore, Zhou Bingkun resolutely resigned from the surviving city soy sauce factory, and threw himself into the hotel set up by the publishing house, and finally the kung fu paid off, the hotel not only made a sound and colorful, but also became an important pillar of the publishing house, and the hotel that became an important pillar of the publishing house also allowed Zhou Bingkun to successfully get the coveted establishment.
In fact, according to the results, Zhou Bingkun's success depends on his own kindness, diligence, and the cultivation of Bole like Shao Jingwen, but if you must trace the source of his success, Zhou Zhigang's 2 roars and unveiling of the bottom of the train station waiting room are the indispensable thrust for him to take a step forward.
This thrust made Zhou Bingkunyi go to the other side without hesitation, and began to understand in his heart that if he wanted others to notice him, he never relied on being weak, but really strong.
Facebook CHIEF OPERATING Officer Shirley Sandberg has this to say in her book "One Step Forward":
Wanting to "win everyone's hearts" can hinder your development. When you want to make a difference, you can't please everyone; if you try to please everyone, you won't make enough progress.
Zhou Bingkun, who no longer lives to please anyone, finally understands the meaning of life. Without the shackles of psychology, the son of this worker in the Guangzi area has also become the "Kun Zong" of other people under the wave of reform, and he is one of the few high-income people!
After 3 years of not communicating with his father, Zhou Bingkun's breath in his heart made him finally succeed.
A lot of times, we always think we've done well enough in anything we do, but the word "good" doesn't have a real standard.
The evaluation of oneself from the outside world is not necessarily completely suppression, if you can find the strength you can draw from these external forces, it is entirely possible that a step forward will be a big step forward, and even cross the original class!