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For "single dogs", the New Year is "passing".
Source: Medical Pulse
Author: Silver
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Today can not escape the parents of the side knock side attack, tomorrow can not avoid the seven aunts and eight aunts of the storm, in order to prevent themselves from entering the terrible "marriage cycle", many people give up resistance, pick up a bit of a bit and then go on a blind date.
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So do I. As a 28-year-old female doctor, she is usually too busy to even be a dog, and there is no social circle, so she can only embark on a long blind date.
The following is an example of my blind date, if there is a similarity, it is purely coincidental.
Main complaint: The family has been married for more than three years. The family sued on his behalf for the year of his establishment, he should have started a family, but he is still standing alone, unmarried and childless, afraid of dragging the country's hind legs, and under the repeated persuasion of his family, he took the blind date number to meet here.
Basic situation: The new year is approaching, during the period of visiting relatives and friends, I am constantly asked about the emotional status of the seven aunts and eight aunts, and I can't be bothered, every time I think about it, I can't be bothered, and even more I can't sleep at night, which makes people bald. This morning, the elders mentioned this matter again, and used the analogy of "sons of other families", which was deeply harsh, and under this stimulation, they plucked up enough courage to meet with relatives and friends. Since being urged to marry, the spirit is acceptable, the appetite is ok, the long-term stay up late work and rest, the bowel movements as usual, the physical strength is poor, and the weight is OK.
Past circumstances: Maternal-fetal singleness. There is no recent history of travel in medium- and high-risk areas, and no recent exposure to patients with fever or COVID-19.
Personal history: From childhood to study and work in the local area, the later plan to settle here for a long time, the caravan has been purchased, no smoking history, occasional alcohol consumption, no history of travel.
Family history: no history of infectious diseases in the family, no genetic predisposing disease. Family harmony, no debt.
Meeting record: infrared thermometer did not alarm when entering the mall door, visible body temperature is normal, no nervous face, visual height of about 175cm, weight is unknown, fat, shaved flat head, wearing a black cotton suit, left hand wearing a smart watch, dark blue jeans, pedal sneakers. The skin exposed throughout the body is normal in color, slightly dry, and the elasticity is not detected. Slowly enter the hall, normal gait, no hunchback, free expression, communication and communication of the answer as usual, no stuttering, but less lazy words. The skull is normal in size and shape. Eyebrows do not fall off, natural sword eyebrows, single eyelids, no edema of the eyelids, no yellow stains on the sclera, wear black-rimmed glasses, visible dark circles, no squinting at me. The shape of the pinna is normal and deformed, typical of the wind ear, a little trimming can get a pair of full net bursting elf ears. No malformations in the nose, no collapse, second degree nasal hairs, no obvious discharge. The lips are rosy and the teeth are neat, but the sparse tooth gap is large, and the sky is not seen, and the teeth can be properly reshaped.
During the consultation, he learned that his mother expected a virtuous woman to patronize the family as a daughter-in-law, and he himself was deeply impressed and committed to finding a beautiful woman to be a "virtuous helper", but the circle was limited, and he had not seen this good person so far. Before the meeting, he knew that I was a healer, and guessed that I must have a deep experience in caring for people, so he gladly met. During the meal, the two sides asked questions and answers between you and me, like a defense, although it was not cold, but there was no sense of heartbeat.
Initial diagnosis:
Introverted and gentle personality, slight social fear
Looks pretty good
Good economic conditions
Ma Bao male to be investigated?
Diagnosis is based on:
The comprehensive physical examination is diagnostic, and the waiter is polite and gentlemanly. In the process of communication, he likes to use "my mother said", lacks opinion, and ma bao male is suspicious.
The facial features are upright, although unremarkable, but there is no obvious hard injury, and the cosmetic effect of a little plastic surgery is better.
Stable work, complete motorhome, family debt-free diagnosis.
differential diagnosis:
It is not excluded that the family has the ingredient of the queen mother selling melons to sell herself, which needs to be distinguished from the masquerade gentleman.
Post-Exposure Program:
Further contact can be made to find out if their personality traits and lifestyle habits are appropriate.
Ask relatives and friends to inquire whether their daily personality is true from what I have seen, ask about their parents' personality, understand their family atmosphere, and ensure that the possibility of excluding ma Bao men is excluded.
Reporting records to parents:
The elders show that the boy's economic conditions are acceptable, there are shining points in personality, the appearance is harmless, if there is no boredom, you can inquire more, exclude the possibility of his mother's treasure man, and later can be appropriately contacted to eliminate the possibility of his disguise, if you can successfully date is excellent.
Daily contact records:
When they met again, their mother accompanied them, very embarrassed, and even less talked, only to bury their heads in food, occasionally looking at each other, still speechless. The lack of common topics between the two sides seems to be a real failure. At this point, his mother suddenly spoke up, began to inquire about my family work situation, and said that after marriage, she hoped that I would focus on the family, not too busy and tired, it was best to resign, and it was better to have children as soon as possible after marriage. I felt deeply uncomfortable, so I politely refused on the grounds of "Dink". The other party was obviously relieved, and his mother saw anger in her face, and I fled into the wilderness.
brief summary:
This person is not my relative, and it is recommended that he turn her to her. I continue to happily single and wait for the right guy.