Childbirth is a very hard thing for mothers, in addition to the difficulty of conceiving in October, the pain suffered during childbirth is also unforgettable for women who are new mothers.
Many mothers think that they will be completely liberated after giving birth, but in fact, there are bigger tests, such as postpartum physical and psychological repair and child anxiety.
I've seen the news of a mother who is depressed after childbirth, and this mom is a mother of three children. But in fact, she did not want to have a third baby, because the family was not rich, and if she could not afford a babysitter, she could not bring it alone.
But the mother-in-law said, "In case the third child is a boy, you can't lose my eldest grandson, and I'll bring it to you when the time comes." ”
The mother listened to the mother-in-law's words and gave birth to the child, fortunately it was a boy, but she did not expect that the mother-in-law did not fulfill her promise to help take the baby, saying that she was not in good health, and wanted to go back to take care of her wife, and finally simply went directly back to the countryside, leaving her alone.
Bao Mama not only has to take care of the newborn XiaoBao every day, but also takes care of the food, clothing, and housing of the Second Treasure, and the whole person becomes very anxious.
Once Xiao Bao suckled too hard to bite her, Bao Mom was bitten, and the emotions that had been suppressed for a long time suddenly got out of control, and she did not listen to the call and picked up the scissors on the table and swiped them into the child's face.
When she woke up after hearing the child's crying, she came back to her senses, but the baby had been scratched beyond recognition.
Bao Mom looked at the baby's scratched face overwhelmed, fortunately heard the moving neighbors came to check, and finally the neighbors sent her and the baby to the hospital, after the examination learned that Bao Mom suffered from very serious postpartum depression, so she made harmful behaviors.
Fortunately, the child's injury was not too serious, and there was no disfigurement after treatment.
Now that five years have passed, Xiao Bao's face has gradually recovered, leaving no scars, and the status quo is gratifying. Bao Mom also slowly cured her depression with the encouragement of her husband, and the family finally worked hard.
After this matter spread to the Internet, netizens were full of emotions, both heartache for the baby and mother.
Because postpartum depression is a very serious disease for baoma, it will make baoma unconsciously have the idea of taking a life, and even hurt the baby.
How can this condition be prevented?
1. Help take care of children more
Some families feel that taking care of their children is a matter for mothers, so these mothers do not even have a confinement, and they worry about the baby's eating and drinking. But at this time, the baby is the most torturous, which will make the mother more and more irritable and easy to be depressed.
Therefore, the family must help take care of the children more, share the pressure of the mother, let them rest well, and have a good recovery process.
2. Take care of the mother's emotions
Many people do not take the emotions of pregnant women seriously, and feel uncomfortable and relaxed, but they do not know that bad emotions will be squeezed together, and when they erupt, they are likely to cause irreparable consequences.
Therefore, the family must take care of the mother's emotions, do not patronize the baby and forget the mother, which will make them feel that they are not valued.