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The third day of the Chinese New Year is my granddaughter's birthday, and when my son and daughter-in-law came to the door with my granddaughter, I wrapped a big red envelope of 6,000 yuan for the child. But I saw my daughter-in-law's face displeased, dinner

author:Mu Yibai flowerer

The third day of the Chinese New Year is my granddaughter's birthday, and when my son and daughter-in-law came to the door with my granddaughter, I wrapped a big red envelope of 6,000 yuan for the child. But I saw my daughter-in-law looking displeased, and after dinner, I was holding the child in the living room watching TV. Suddenly I heard my son and daughter-in-law shouting inside, there was a tendency to rattling swords, and then I listened to it with my ear to get a rough idea of what had happened.

My name is Yuan Ming, 53 years old. He is a painting teacher with a monthly salary of 12,000. Occasionally go out and teach a few drawing lessons. My wife has been in poor health and died at the age of 38, leaving 2 boys, when I was under a lot of pressure and raised them from a young age. The hardships are only understood by those who have experienced them firsthand.

Happily, the 2 children are also angry, they all went to college, each became a family, and had a career of their own, and I was completely relieved.

Now my body is not as good as before, more at home to recuperate, occasionally with my peers to lift a pen, painting, although monotonous, but life is very happy, every day is also very content.

By chance, there was an extra strange figure in the group of people I communicated with every day, and successfully attracted my attention, she was dignified in appearance, elegant in temperament, good and kind in voice, and the first time we met, she left a good impression on my heart.

Over time, we also slowly became acquainted, and after many conversations, I found that there were many common topics between us. In an exchange conversation, I learned that her name is Yang Min, 50 years old this year, but from the appearance point of view, it is probably in her early 40s.

She once studied dance when she was young, and she has a good foundation and has a daughter, and now she is married, and her life is also passable. I was fascinated by her appearance and language charm during the conversation, and I gradually understood that I should have met the right person.

After that, I tried to talk to her many times, invited her to dinner, and went for a walk together, and over time, I became more and more dependent on her, and I thought I shouldn't miss this opportunity, so I was ready to express my love to Yang Min. After all, I'm older, and my two sons have become their own families, so it's time to think for myself.

On a sunny morning, I called her and asked her to go to a coffee shop, she also expressed her willingness, agreed to my invitation, and halfway through the coffee, I told her my love straight away, but I didn't expect Yang Min to think about it for a short time and agreed to me. It ecstatic me because I never imagined things would go so well.

Later she talked a lot about our later planning, scene after scene, and her every word was engraved in my mind. She said: "Old Yuan, we have all known each other for such a long time, we are all old, we must seek truth from facts, I will say some practical things today, I hope you don't mind."

I said to her, "Of course not." At this time, Yang Min directly proposed what we should do next, whether to get a certificate.

I said to her, "I listen to you for all these things, and I believe that you are a sincere, generous person, and it is up to you to decide."

Yang Min thought about it and said, "Since you asked me to say, I will tell you what I think." We can be together, but I hope not to get a marriage certificate because you have your two children and I have my daughter, and when we get old it will involve a lot of posthumous issues, which is quite tricky. So I think for the sake of the big picture, this piece of paper should not be taken.

I replied to Yang Min: "I didn't think about it so much, and I didn't expect you to think so long-term and thoughtful, although I don't mind, but I think it's very unfair to you." ”

Yang Min smiled happily and said to me: "We are all old, don't care so much, as long as we love each other and spend this life safely, even if it is complete, everything else is not important." ”

After this heart-opening exchange, we were completely together, and then I was slowly assimilated by Yang Min. Yang Min is a woman who is very sensitive to life, and she is particularly concerned about the atmosphere of our lives. She found some people to decorate our living environment. Let our family of two become warm and comfortable, full of romantic colors. Every day we fall asleep with a vision of the future, and the next day we open our eyes to the anticipation of the day and the yearning for the next. It really feels like a happy life.

Although we haven't been together for long, our neighbors see me and say I look much better than before. I want to thank Yang Min, who made me have a happy old age. I really should thank her.

The third day of the Lunar New Year is my granddaughter's birthday. It was a gift from my eldest son at the beginning of this year, and I finally became a grandfather. I was very happy all along. When my son and daughter-in-law came to the door with my granddaughter, I wrapped a large red envelope of 6,000 yuan for the child. But I saw my daughter-in-law's face was displeased, and I didn't know what was going on? I wondered in my heart, is it a problem at home, or is there less red envelopes?

After dinner, I held my kids in the living room watching TV. Suddenly I heard my son and daughter-in-law shouting inside, there was a tendency to rattling swords, and then I listened to it with my ear to get a rough idea of what had happened.

It turned out that the daughter-in-law wanted her son to give me some ideas of her own. Regarding my savings and the house, my son insisted on refusing. At this time, I slowly realized the deep meaning of the ideas that Yang Mingang put forward with me when he was with me.

This is just the eldest son, and the younger son has not yet had this idea. That night I thought repeatedly that if I continued like this, if I left Yang Min one step ahead, she would have nothing.

With all this in mind, I felt it necessary for me to get a marriage license with Yang Min. In this way, in case of an accident arriving first, Yang Min also has a guarantee, what do you think?

@Mu Yibaiflower 

I think the elderly are together just to be happy, and since the wife said that it is best not to get a license, I am afraid that her family has the same problem as you. Tell both children openly that property does not affect each other. Only when the children are at ease, the family life will be happy! Make your own decisions, bless you, and meet your wife you really like! #Emotion##Emotion Firm ##情感情感 #

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