I don't know if you have paid attention to a phenomenon, that is, many second-born mothers are not willing to go to the obstetric examination when they are pregnant, and the reasons behind this are more complicated. But we all know that the importance of obstetric examination for pregnant women and fetuses is self-evident, so it is necessary to understand the reasons behind this and solve the problem before we can mobilize the enthusiasm of mothers to go to the obstetric examination.
Case: The second-born mother is reluctant to give birth because she is too busy at work and the time is always not coincidental
Ms. Lin works in a private enterprise, because it belongs to the nature of docking foreign trade, so the usual work is extremely busy, and the competition is also very strong, even if there is a holiday, she does not dare to ask for leave casually, for fear of performance is not up to standard.
When Ms. Lin was pregnant with her first child, because she had no experience at that time, she was also particularly attentive to the obstetric examination, plus the work was not so busy at that time, so every obstetric examination would be reported. But now that she is pregnant with her second child, she is reluctant to go to the obstetric examination for various reasons.
One of the most critical points is the work reason, the company's personnel arrangements for the leave system are more stringent, and each leave request must be arranged according to the transfer of personnel, which means that it is likely to collide with Ms. Lin's maternity inspection time. In addition, the appointment of the hospital's obstetric examination is also more troublesome, the doctor who examines and the doctor who visits the doctor are not the same, and it depends on whether the doctor and his leave time can correspond. In short, for Ms. Lin, it is too much trouble, usually as long as she feels that there is no abnormal situation, she is not willing to go to the maternity examination frequently.
In fact, many young women have such troubles as Ms. Lin, and it can only be said that women face a lot of pressure in this aspect of work.
01 The second-born mother is reluctant to give birth to the examination, afraid of these three major troubles, and the last reason is to poke the heart socket
The first is that we mentioned in the case above, it is difficult to arrange the time of all aspects coincidentally, which is still a great blow to the enthusiasm of the second-born mother for obstetric examination. Therefore, it is recommended here that if you really work in a private company, you can usually accumulate holidays together, and wait until you need to take leave when you need maternity examinations, then it may be relatively easy.
Secondly, there are also some second-born mothers during the first pregnancy, eat too much obstetric examination pain, many times the obstetric examination is a person to go, plus in the hospital to go up and down, running back and forth, whether it is queuing up to take the number, or queuing up to do the examination, payment, etc., are pregnant mothers alone. And all the larger hospitals, the number of people examined is larger, every time you do a maternity examination, you may have to stay in the hospital for several hours, this process is also very torturous.
Before a friend of mine was seven months pregnant, the original mood was relatively unstable, husband and mother-in-law because of work problems can not accompany her to go to the obstetric examination, she went to the hospital alone to deal with various problems, and then in the process of running back and forth in the hospital is really tortured can not stand, directly sitting in the public chair of the hospital collapsed and cried. Such emotions may seem difficult to understand to outsiders, but for pregnant women affected by progesterone, it is normal for emotions to be out of control. Since then, the enthusiasm of friends for obstetric examinations has become smaller, which shows that this blow is still very large.
The last reason why the second-born mother is reluctant to go to the obstetric examination is also very heartfelt, that is, if she goes to the hospital for a maternity examination, then the boss of the family will have no one to help bring it. Some people may say that it is not enough to take the child directly to the hospital? In fact, the pregnant woman's obstetric examination itself is more troublesome, if you take the little guy who does not understand things at this time, it may make the obstetric examination process more troublesome, and the hospital has a lot of traffic, if the pregnant mothers do not pay attention, the little guy may also be scattered.
In addition, some little ones don't have the patience to stay in the hospital for a long time, and they will argue and let the pregnant mothers take them home. At the same time, the hospital environment is not good, if the child stays in the hospital for a long time, there are more patients, in fact, it may also be infected. And pregnant mothers are not at ease to leave the little one alone at home, if there is no one else to take care of, pregnant mothers are naturally unwilling to go to the obstetric examination, it is a dilemma.
Here we should remind the second-born mothers not to feel that they have experience in pregnancy, but to rely on their own feelings and experiences, thinking that there is nothing abnormal about the baby in the belly, so they do not go to the obstetric examination. Whether it is a new mother or a menstrual mother, in fact, the obstetric examination is very important, because the state of the baby in the belly can be directly observed, as well as the physical condition of the pregnant mothers themselves.
During the entire pregnancy period, for ten months, the number of obstetric examinations averaged about once a month, in fact, there were not many. Therefore, it is still hoped that pregnant mothers can have more snacks on the obstetric examination, rather than holding a fluke and casual psychology, otherwise they are likely to suffer a big loss.