【Parent Professional Course】What should I do if my child can't sit still when he learns?

Xiaoming will soon go to elementary school, and her mother is worried that her child will not be able to keep up with everyone after she goes to primary school, so she wants to teach her children some knowledge first. But every time he came out of school, the child ran away without paying attention. Playing with other children in kindergarten is particularly crazy, and they don't want to go home after school, and they want to continue to play. I can't sit still every time I study. One moment looking east and west, the other noisily playing with toys. Schools are not working well.

If your child is the same, don't worry. Children are naturally active, and such children are more flexible and more observant. Activeness also contributes to the development of non-intellectual factors in children. So you should be happy and proud.

Children can't sit still when they are studying, and parents and friends can think of ways to help their children. Recommend the following methods to you and see if it works for you.

First, cultivate your child's concentration in your daily life. We consciously cultivate the habit of children and parents sitting down to read, learn, and do things together. No matter how busy you are, when you get home, you must accompany your children to read stories, do handicrafts, build blocks, etc. This fosters your child's concentration.

My son was also very active when he was a child, and he couldn't sit still when he was studying. Because my family was small, my son was afraid of affecting the neighbors downstairs, so I had to take him to the playground. The child was about to go to school, and I couldn't take it anymore, and I was very upset at the time. The husband thought of a way to buy a pair of Chinese chess with his son. Every time the child came home, the father and son began to play chess. Playing chess is like fighting a war, and it is very attractive to the son. When the father explains the rules, the child is quiet. In the process of knowing the chess pieces, the child learned some Chinese characters. Because there are rules for playing chess, there are losses and wins, and children realize the truth of "winning is not arrogant, and defeat is not bad".

Second, we can train children to tell picture book stories to parents. Let the child pick a picture book story that they like and tell it to their parents. In the process of narration, the child's attention will be concentrated, and it can also make the child's eyes, brain, and mouth develop in harmony with each other. If you insist on doing this kind of training with your child, your child's attention will gradually improve and your expression ability will also increase.

There are also some children who can't sit still because they have ADHD. Don't worry, as you get older, your child will gradually heal himself. During this period of time, we parents should follow the advice of the doctor, pay more attention and patience, and help our children through this special period.

If you want your child to grow up healthily, parents should still take time to accompany their children as much as possible. Use good methods in companionship to inspire and guide children. Not only can children increase their knowledge, but also stimulate their curiosity. When children have a desire to learn, they will pay attention to one thing, and when they study, they will sit and sit steadily.