On the first day of the Chinese New Year, I took my 4-year-old daughter home to visit my parents, and when I had lunch at noon, my father suddenly brought back a man, and my mother said: Girl! You're 34 years old this year! You can't always be single

On the first day of the Chinese New Year, I took my 4-year-old daughter home to visit my parents, and when I had lunch at noon, my father suddenly brought back a man, and my mother said: Girl! You're 34 years old this year! You can't be single for the rest of your life! It's time to consider getting married too! This is the blind date that my father and I chose for you, so let's have a good chat!

I am Zhang Yu, is the manager of the personnel department in a company, the monthly salary is 15,000 yuan, I am a single mother, usually while working with my daughter, life is very hard, but seeing the lovely daughter, I think it is worth the hard work.

My daughter's father, Qin Ran, used to be my favorite man, we were the same school as the university, he was the male god of the school grass, and he was also the object of my crush, when I plucked up the courage to confess to him, I knew that he already had a girlfriend, and I buried this love deep in my heart.

Many years later, I attended a class reunion, met Qin Ran by chance, and learned that he was single again, so I took the initiative to add his WeChat and then began to pursue him.

After half a month of unremitting efforts, I finally responded to the old saying, the female chasing the male compartment yarn, Qin Ran in turn frequently asked me out, and sent countless messages every day to amuse me, three months later, we moved to live together!

However, the second month I became pregnant, and I naively thought that the child was the crystallization of my love with Qin Ran, and I was even happy! I also thought about the way my child would look when he called me mom in the future.

When I excitedly told Qin Ran, he actually said: "Zhang Yu, this child can't be wanted, I am in the rising stage of my career, I can't care about getting married, and I'm not ready to have children, let alone we are still young!" Children will have it later.

At that time, after listening to his words, I cried angrily and shouted: How can you be such a person! I'm 29 years old! This is my first child, she is a small life, but also your child, how can you bear not to want her? You are so in charge, do you still deserve to be a man? No matter what, I'm going to give birth to this child.

I didn't expect it! Qin Ran actually packed up his things and moved away overnight! He also quit his job and changed his mobile phone number, and his behavior made me dumbfounded! I also saw his true face clearly, which made me completely dead to him!

In this way, I chose to give birth to this child, although it is not easy to be a single mother, but I have never regretted it, and thanks to the help of my parents, five years have passed in the blink of an eye.

What I didn't expect was that my daughter grew up slowly, and she saw that other children had fathers, so she often made a fuss and asked me to find a father for her, which made me very helpless?

This year, as before, I took my daughter home to visit my parents on the first day of the New Year, and spent a total of 6,000 yuan to buy a set of anti-wrinkle cream for my mother and a box of Moutai wine for my father.

As soon as I entered the house, my daughter went into the small bedroom to play games! I felt that the atmosphere was not right, every year I wore an apron, and my father who cooked in the kitchen did not see anyone.

My mother smiled and said to me, "Zhang Yu! This time you have to listen to your parents! You're 34 years old! You can't be single for the rest of your life! Your dad and I have found you a suitable marriage candidate, and your dad has already picked him up!

I said helplessly: Mom, how come you and Dad brought people home without my consent, I am dead set on any man, it is impossible to get married in this life,

Mom narrowed her eyes and said, "My stupid girl!" A lifetime is too long, and it is not easy to be a single mother! There is no man in the family for a long time, the child will grow up slowly, but what happens? Mom and Dad don't trust you! You don't say anything for your parents and your daughter? Wait a minute, your dad brings people back, you see people first! That's how I compromised!

When my mother and I just put the dishes on the table, my father came back with a man, I took a closer look, it was actually the neighbor Wang Bing in the community, he was my classmate from elementary school to high school, from childhood he liked to circle around me, especially annoying, when he was a junior in high school, he actually confessed to me! At that time, I said: We can never be a couple, we are too familiar with each other!

When I thought of this, I couldn't help but stare at him fiercely, and Wang Bing stood awkwardly in the doorway, he said, "Zhang Yu, I didn't scare you!" I didn't dare to come to see you, but my uncle pulled me in.

Mom said, "Wang Bing, what are you explaining to her?" Hurry into the house and eat! Dad immediately sat down in the restaurant with Wang Bing.

I was so angry that I buried my head in bitterness, and my parents kept giving Wang Bing vegetables and piling up his bowl like a hill, and my mother said, "Wang Bing, today you will make your words clear!" You haven't been on a blind date for so many years! Is it to wait for Zhang Yu again.

Wang Bing suddenly stood up and said: Yes! Then he looked at me with affection on his face and said, "Zhang Yu, I have been waiting for you all these years, and I will definitely treat your daughter as my own beloved, I know that it is difficult for you to make a choice now, you think about it, I am waiting for your reply."

I was embarrassed to face Wang Bing's confession, and I was really moved! Just say to him: What you say, I need to think about it for a few days, and then give you an answer!

Mom then said, "Zhang Yu, what else are you thinking about?" Wang Bing is a good child, we live in a community, understand each other, you two should get married early!

Dad said: I have the same idea as your mother, Wang Bing has been waiting for you for so many years! "Zhang Yu! What are you hesitating about?

I didn't talk anymore, I lost sleep last night, and I knew that my parents were for my own good, but I didn't want to get married! Do people talk about whether women have to get married all their lives?

#Comfort Emotional Story# Hello Ladies! After listening to your story, no one stipulates that women must get married for the rest of their lives, but you have to understand! The one-wood bridge is difficult to walk, and someone next to you is helping to walk smoothly, like your case, you should find a suitable person to marry, so that you can give your child a complete home and let her have a father.

I suggest you consider Wang Bing, this man really loves you, unforgettable love may not be able to cultivate positive results, sudden love, often hurt people the most, women need a man's love and waiting.

Life is like a cup of boiled water, calm the mind, look down on everything, some pain has passed, to learn to put down, early to meet the new life, ordinary life will be happy, you think about it!