Zeng Shiqiang: When a family is not a heart, this family begins to split. This is independence, this is individualism. When everyone in a home is an independent individual, what is that home? Home is a hotel, then it is not a home. Don't believe each other, beware of each other. What warmth is there in that home? Is such a home still worth our nostalgia?
What is home? It's the place where you can feel at ease. Why do some people obviously have a home, but they feel homeless, feel like drifting duckweed? Because family is not a heart, because each other has a calculation, because each other cannot accept and tolerate.
Such a home, there is no way to make people feel at ease, there is no way to make people feel warm. When you go back, you feel less comfortable outside. Because it is cold, because it is full of oppressive atmosphere, people feel chest tightness or even suffocation, this is no longer home.
We all want to have a home, but we don't need it to be gorgeous, how grand, how brilliant it is. What we really crave is the warmth of home. As the lyrics sing: I want to have a home, a place that doesn't need to be gorgeous, and when I'm tired, I think about it. A place that doesn't need to be much bigger, I don't get scared when I'm frightened.
