It is really embarrassing to go back to my hometown for the New Year this year, and I don't know whether to go back in the future? The old man hired a nanny to live in our old house, and did not let the nanny go during the New Year, so that we could only live with children when we returned to our hometown

It is really embarrassing to go back to my hometown for the New Year this year, and I don't know whether to go back in the future?

The old man hired a nanny to live in our old house, and did not let the nanny go during the New Year, so that we could only live in the home of the second uncle of the child when we returned to our hometown.

When I was Chinese New Year's Eve, I was making dumplings with the nanny, and the second uncle of the child suddenly yelled: "There is no outsider for the New Year's dinner", the nanny heard it, and had to leave, and then the child's grandfather called me, and the concubine called me again and told me to stop the nanny from leaving (here, the concubine's family is being isolated. And arranged for the babysitter to live with the child's grandfather, my son (my sons are in their 20s)!

For such an arrangement, we did not agree, it felt inappropriate! So still live in the child's second uncle's home, if we agree, first of all, it will offend the child's second uncle's family, second, my son is so old, living with the old man and the old lady, there must be a lot of inconvenience, and finally feel that the old man and the nanny are not husband and wife, and it is not appropriate to live together, right?

In the face of such a problem, if it is you, will you go back to your hometown for the New Year in the future?