I have seen many people with tragic fates, and the most tragic thing I think around me is that I am a female classmate in middle school, born in 1976. In my opinion, the first half of her life was very tragic: first, she was a child

I have seen many people with tragic fates, and the most tragic thing I think around me is that I am a female classmate in middle school, born in 1976.

In my opinion, the first half of her life was very tragic: First, her childhood was very tragic: the family was not bad, her father was the captain of the production team, and her mother graduated from high school, all of which were great existences at that time, with an older brother who was two years older, and the family was also happy and happy. When she was less than two years old, her father drove a tractor mill from the wheat field cliffside (the top of the cave built by the villagers is the wheat field) fell to her death, her mother was stimulated, her spirit was not very good, her life ability was affected, and her life took a sharp turn for the worse. Soon after, her mother relied on the good conditions at home to recruit people, but she did not expect that from this bad luck, her stepfather was in Cao Yingxin in Han, the family grain and furniture, the valuable ones were poured to his hometown, the old home needed a door to repair the place, he even demolished the door of the side room and took it back. And also domestic violence, so my classmate's mother's mental illness is getting more and more serious, and she can't take care of these brothers and sisters at all... Her mother also gave birth to a boy with her stepfather, two years younger than her, who had been brought back to his hometown to raise him.

Second, the tortured, discriminated against the student era: my classmates and brothers are very smart brains, both survived to middle school, his brother is a natural artist, brush writing and painting are particularly good, no teacher, good singing, but also write poetry, is a famous talent in the school, my classmates have always had particularly good grades, but I am most impressed by the winter she wears thin clothes and shoes, the cold shivers, lips purple. Once it snowed heavily, she went out to school in the morning, got lost in the field without footprints, ran all morning and did not arrive at school... She ran home every day to eat and came back to school hungry because her mother was lying down and not cooking. Her mother also did not know to grind the noodles, hungry her brothers and sisters cooked wheat grains to eat, later, she always took a radish as lunch, did not go home, because there is nothing to eat only eat radish, she has a serious bad breath, was disliked by the classmates, teased and ridiculed by male classmates, I deeply remember her because she can only eat radish Taoxin, stomach discomfort stomach discomfort, sad has been curled up in the waist holding the stomach ... He dropped out of school after graduating from high school.

Third, the first out of society was harassed: just graduated she went out to be a nanny, was harassed and frightened by the owner (even if it is such a bad living condition, it did not affect her long beauty, she goose egg face, thin eyebrows and apricot eyes, full lips, tall figure) ran home and did not go again.

Fourth, relatively lucky southern part-time work: I think this should be the most relaxed and happy years of her life! At that time, she had just caught up with the craze of the ninth year, and she went to Shenzhen to work again. Mixed well over there, smart as she was, learned Cantonese, became a lobby manager in the hotel, and people are getting more and more beautiful, amazing kind, and there are many people who pursue her. Unfortunately, she met the destined person and nailed her to the established tragic life track! Because of her inner inferiority, she has been particularly cautious and dare not accept anyone's pursuit, until the class leader of our class also went to Shenzhen to work and met her, the common hometown, classmates, teachers, let her unload her guard, close to him, she is very inferior, feel that she was born poor, the conditions are not good, and my male classmate's family is not good, or the terrain of the small ravine, people are not handsome, she thinks that she will not look down on her when she gets married, she will cherish her. She also said that there was a reason, because the class leader had organized a fundraising for her at that time, and she had always been grateful. In this way, she talked to him about love, but my male classmate is a scumbag, the middle school era has been scandalous, I like to engage in those wind and snow, and I split my legs twice during the love affair with my female classmates, but when I returned, the words were particularly touching, always let my female classmates forgive him, and finally talked for a few years, my female classmates still married him!

Fifth, the marriage that is constantly cheated on and abused by domestic violence. After marriage, her husband was blatantly cheating, changing his appearance, and beating her up without a word. Her mother-in-law also looked down on her because of her poor native family and did not give her a good face. My female classmate actually thought that she only gave birth to a daughter and did not give birth to a son to be looked down upon, and then finally gave birth to a son as desired, but her husband did not have a few days, and the old state reappeared, she was powerless to resist, powerless to change, she once said, the most painful period of time, she thought about death, thought of fleeing, but in the end she chose to be numb, put all her attention on learning, spent more than a year to take the accounting certificate, went to Beijing, found a good accounting job, since then, relatively stand up economically, At this time, it was about 2010, and her husband also went abroad to work, and the two of them began a common goal, making money! Although the life of the heavenly parties has begun since then, other troubles seem to be temporarily put aside.

Sixth, like a mountain pressed overhead, there is no escape from the original family. Her mother's illness gradually improved after her stepfather's death, but it was limited to her own life, unable to give any help to her children, and my classmates still needed to support her. Up to now, the three brothers and sisters have worked for more than 20 years, and her brother is over forty years old, and they have not been married because of their family poverty and many other reasons. To make matters worse, around 2016, her brother's liver cirrhosis is serious, her mother can't count on it, her brother can only support himself when he works, there is no money, my classmate begged her husband to take out money to save her brother's life, her husband said irritably, why doesn't he die yet! Family conflicts can be imagined! It is really sad to say, his brother has been taking medicine, spending my female classmate's money, and her husband is also very impatient! In the end, my female classmate still raised money to give her brother hospitalization, to this day, I know, not counting that time, his brother has relapsed twice, and every time my female classmates have sent water droplets in the circle of friends to raise money. I really don't know when this day is a head!

Talking about masturbating, my female classmate took the primary accounting certificate followed by the intermediate accounting certificate, the salary was higher, and then returned to us to open her own accounting firm, had her own career, and gradually improved. Her daughter has been studying well, last year was admitted to a good university, and her son also brought her around after she returned to open a firm, and her study is also very good, and the future is promising.

Therefore, sometimes, a person's tragic fate is brought to you by the people around you, and this misery does not belong to you! This is even more surprising!