Some time ago, the suicide of Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, made many netizens very concerned. Everyone sympathized with the boy's background, and while expressing regret, they could understand the reasons for his choice.
After reading Liu Liu Xuezhou's suicide note, people can't help but think of Lu Dawson, a photographer who died a few months ago. The suicide notes of the two have the same magic, especially the beginning is mainly to introduce themselves, and all their painful experiences are fully presented in just a few sentences.
Liu Xuezhou and Lu Dawson have similar parts of their experiences, and both have childhood shadows. Childhood life, two people did not have a good life.
Lu Dawson was a left-behind child when he was a child, did not enjoy the love of his father and mother, his biological father punched and kicked him for a math problem, and Liu Xuezhou witnessed the death of his adoptive parents when he was 4 years old, and before he graduated from primary school, his aunt who was his mother also died.
In the shadows of their childhood, school violence occupies a large part. Liu Xuezhou was violently abused in school because of his origins, because he was not born to his parents. Many classmates thought he had no one to rely on, called him a "wild child", punched and kicked him, and isolated him. After entering junior high school, he was also molested by his male teacher.
The reason why Lu Dawson was violently attacked by the school was his personality, a relatively silent and gentle boy, who was actually scolded by his classmates.
School bullying has become a childhood shadow for two people, and there are no adults around who can enlighten and rely on, and it is difficult for young children to solve the unfair fate alone.
Obviously, they have also tried to ask the teacher for help, but in fact, the role of the teacher in the school bullying is very small, they often choose to calm the situation, and the victim who is found to be sued will be subjected to more severe bullying.
Growing up, Lu Dawson was deeply affected by the shadow of childhood, although he became the photographer of his dreams, but he was not respected and loved by his parents, their incomprehension, and the pressure of life, so that he finally chose to live lightly.
Originally, Liu Xuezhou had an aunt and grandmother, a grandfather, a grandfather, and a grandmother, but he knew that after his death, he was eager to find his own parents, and was abandoned by his biological parents for the second time. He was frustrated to learn that he had been sold, not abducted, but even more frustrating was that his biological parents now had their own families, and he was more of a liability to the two of them.
Even his biological parents smeared themselves on social media, making it very difficult for him to accept, so Liu Xuezhou chose to take his life lightly.
The two eventually left the same place, both chose the seaside, perhaps they think that they can truly have freedom in the seaside.
From Lu Dawson to Liu Xuezhou, it can be seen that the influence of childhood shadows on children is very large, and many adults, until the end of life, can not get out of the influence of childhood shadows, which also tells many parents to pay attention to the child's heart, rather than simply meeting the material conditions. Hopefully, tragedies like theirs will not be staged again in the future.