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No one likes to be deceived by "lies", but no one dares to say that they can't lie.
From the moment we are very young, from the moment we become self-aware, we unconsciously lie.
Lying may be an innate ability of our human beings! It's just this ability, some people are proficient, some people are not good.
It's only been a year! The "lie" about the New Year is coming again, and in the era when everyone lies, the New Year's lie is also indispensable.
New Year's "lies", whether you are an adult or a child, you must have said it. And the most common, must be "Auntie, can't do it!" "PK" Mom, help you save it. ”
"Auntie, I can't help it!"
In our traditional Chinese culture, it is polite to receive people and treat things.
During the New Year, whose children have sweet mouths, whose children are easy to please.
New Year's Red Envelopes, Pressure money for the younger generations, adults are sincere and insincere, this is not clear to see and understand.
But we have to be educated from a young age, and others give red envelopes, and we can't directly "want" it.
Be "shy", be "reserved", and "reject" for a while.
This leads to a slight thought of an idiom: want to get away with it.
The mouth said no red packet, "Auntie, I can't do it!" ”
In fact, your body and movements are very honest, open the pocket, the inner words are: don't be a little virtual, directly put inside.
What is even more ridiculous is that parents also echo: the children are so old, even if they need to send red envelopes!
Who says you can't take a red envelope when you grow up? The custom of red envelopes, this is not to see the tradition of each family.
Like the slightly omitted family, before the work, you can continue to take the elders' red envelopes.
After he joined the work, he also sent red envelopes to his younger siblings who were still in school.
To put it bluntly, it is the most important thing for a family to have a happy New Year! "Lie" or something, don't bother to think about it, familiar relatives take the red envelope and sweeten their mouths to pray for the New Year.
"Mom, save it for you!"
Most of the child's lying behavior is actually learned from the parents, who told you to tell the child from a young age: your mother has helped you save the money. I'll give it to you when you're older!
As a result, when the child grows up, ask you where his pressure money has gone! Mom will say again: I have paid you tuition.
A good trick to steal the day! The adults use it perfectly.
Maybe you can't blame your parents, because their parents told them the same thing when they were young.
Boy! Generation after generation, and so are the lies?
Is this genetics? I grew up to be the parents I used to hate!
Adults are also reasonable, the New Year's pressure money, only children make money, only parents lose money.
However, if the intermediate link is omitted, the parents of both sides make a direct "transaction", so that the child takes the red envelope and gives it to the parents, so that the income and expenditure are balanced.
What about playing? Some parents think that the child is too small, and now the pressure on the age of money is thousands of dollars a year, and the child is not conscious of money, so the parents reluctantly keep it for the child.
Seems to make a lot of sense! That no sense of money, you cultivate how to manage money.
Parents can help their children save, but the ownership must belong to the children. Children can know about it and can also apply for use.
It makes no sense to confiscate the child's old age money and deceive the child's parents, after all, the old age money is the blessing of the elders to the younger generations, and the parents intercept it, what does it mean!
New Year's Festival, more sincerity, less deception
No one will accept being deceived except by white lies.
New Year's Festival, more sincerity, less deception! This is true for children, and so are adults.
More important is the importance of parents, words and deeds.
With children visiting relatives and friends, some of the traditions and rules of the New Year should be taught to children in advance.
How to say auspicious words to the New Year, how to receive red envelopes and say thanks, how to greet and greet and so on.
And for those loving "lies", you see you so thin and eat more, you see you so tired to rest will.
Learn to distinguish between what is "love" and what is "deception."
And share and pass on love and warmth!
A little bit of a message
Visiting relatives and friends in the New Year, a little favorite sentence is: Are you thin again!
Or a sentence: the longer you are, the younger you look, the better!
Knowing that it is fake, it is still very clear that there are a few pounds of meat on my body, but I can't help but make people happy!
Isn't the New Year just a happy one? Some "lies" are necessary, and some "lies" are sweet.
Today's Topic:
What are the most lies you hear during the Chinese New Year?
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