Parents are really getting harder and harder to do, and as children get bigger and bigger, it becomes harder and harder to bring.
Over time, children begin to have their own ideas and no longer follow their parents. Parents become powerless when they are educating, so they "wave traces" on various parenting networks and various parenting public accounts, hoping to find ways to help them educate their children and solve the family's education problems.
But parents will find that each education expert's statement is different, and there are even conflicts with each other.
Some people say that raising children should follow their nature, and parents cannot intervene; some people say that parents should intervene in their children, because the children are still young and cannot make their own choices; some people say that parents' education should be based on "education", and some people say that parents' education should be based on "teaching"...
In the many miscellaneous information and methods, parents are gradually disoriented, facing the child's education problem is still a first two big. In fact, the basic education of children is to educate themselves and regulate themselves, with this foundation, educating children will be more effective with half the effort.
Defoe once said, "The most effective way for a person to educate others is to educate himself first." ”
When we teach our children not to watch TV and eat while eating, are we also brushing vibrato while eating? Let the child not be angry at will, when making a big noise and throwing things, have you ever been angry with the child for no reason, verbal violence against the child, and sometimes even physical violence? When teaching children to be honest and do what they say, do they make promises to their children at will, and do they not fulfill their commitments in time? ......
"Near Zhu is red, near ink is black." " Dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, rat children will punch holes", "The real education is not in dictation, but in the body transmission" and other ancient and modern proverbs all illustrate: excellent parents, there is a high probability of educating excellent children, so teaching by example is the best way to educate children. This method is best suited for cultivating good qualities in children. Children with good qualities are more likely to succeed in their studies and life.
As far as teaching by example is concerned, parents are required to be strict with themselves, always remember that they are children's role models, constantly improve and improve themselves, and drive children through their own words and deeds to establish a positive image for children. It should be easier to change yourself than to change others!