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Taking the baby to the supermarket during the festival is the custom of every family, and the supermarket is lined with various commodities and colorful snacks, all of which have a super attraction for children.
Parents may only care about whether the child will buy things without reason, but as a person who has come over, you should especially remind you that you must remember to look after the child's curious eyes and dexterous hands, otherwise a careless person may "run into a big disaster".
Turning supermarkets into "handicraft workshops"
A bao mother in Guizhou took two babies to the supermarket, unexpectedly, but did not take care of it at a glance, the child turned the supermarket into a "handicraft workshop".
There are noodles stacked next to the supermarket shelves, and two little babies will pull out the noodles one by one to play and scatter them on the ground. When they were discovered, they had no idea they had made a mistake and were fiddling with "new toys."
Seeing this kind of picture, Bao Mom seems to have lost her temper, and can only accept the facts and take the initiative to buy the noodles that have been played by the child. There is no doubt that for many days after that, the family was trying various ways to eat noodles.
"Bear child" is very "unexpected"
Many parents will find that sometimes they admire their children's imagination and practical ability, and they can be naughty to such an extent.
In the supermarket, a little boy took advantage of his mother's lack of attention to play with peaches and practiced "one finger Zen", and the peaches that were broken by each one looked quite neat. Bao Mom was also in the mood to take a photo to keep a souvenir, and then bought all the damaged peaches.
If a child runs into this kind of small disaster, parents may still be able to laugh, but if they get into big trouble, the family may be overwhelmed.
Another little boy also practiced "One Finger Zen" in the supermarket, and used "props", "stole" a toothpick, poked the vacuum rice one by one, and forty-five bags of rice were forced to inflate.
There is no way, parents can only buy all this rice at home. Netizens also cried and laughed, suggesting that parents punish their children for counting rice, and netizens left messages saying that if the family does not often cook, these rice is enough for the family to eat for ten years.
Treat children rationally
When parents are angry at their children for running into trouble, they should also be relieved that their children are naughty, because this is the proof of their growth.
Roman. Roland once said that doing wrong things in life is long insight, in fact, when children do wrong things, they are also exploring the unknown process, but they may use the wrong method and explore the wrong direction.
How parents react after children make mistakes is the key to whether they can learn from mistakes and grow rapidly.
A parent saw his child crushing a persimmon in the supermarket, jumped like a thunderbolt, beat the child to a wow and cry, and the wife who came forward to dissuade him was also slapped by him, and the naughty behavior of a child turned into a family "war".
This is obviously inappropriate, the father does not teach the child how to take responsibility for making mistakes, but also hurts the child's self-esteem and breaks the family's harmony.
First of all, when the child makes a mistake, the parent should take the initiative to take responsibility.
Whether a mistake is made in a supermarket or elsewhere, parents should take the initiative to bear the consequences after determining that the child is indeed responsible, explain the reason to the child, tell the child where the mistake is, what kind of impact it has on others, and ask the child to apologize and make "compensation" in a way that can be done.
Children make mistakes, learn where they are wrong, and have a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
Second, parents must not escape.
When the child makes a mistake, some parents admit that the mistake is not in the child, push the responsibility to others, and evade the responsibility for various reasons.
In this way, it seems to reduce the economic losses, but it loses the best time to educate the children.
Do your homework to avoid making mistakes
Of course, it is said that we should take precautions, and we must consider these possibilities before taking our children to the supermarket, and try not to cause trouble to others and ourselves.
Let the child have no time to slip away and make mistakes, and make the following preliminary preparations:
1. Make a shopping list
Parents and children make shopping lists together and write out the items that need to be purchased, so that children have more purpose when visiting the supermarket, reducing the chance of "hanging out" and running into trouble.
2, consciously bring him to increase his insight
If you are not particularly anxious, visiting the supermarket can also become a small class of life encyclopedia.
Parents explain the use of goods, production process, precautions, etc. for their children while walking, increasing the fun of visiting the supermarket and reducing the probability of children being naughty and mischievous because of boredom.
Whether it is visiting the supermarket or doing other things, it is inevitable that children will make mistakes, and parents' rational response is the key to helping them grow and reduce mistakes.