In the TV series "Perfect Partner", Wu Min, played by Wang Zhen'er, once became a "bad woman" after giving birth.
In order to force Lin Qingkun to divorce, Wu Min made many extreme acts that were impersonal, and finally Lin Qingkun had to put down his face and draft and sign a divorce agreement on the premise of not informing the child before he became an adult.
After the divorce, Wu Min seems to have been reborn, not only restoring the mental outlook of the past, but also allowing the custody class to begin to gradually enter a better state.
But while enjoying "independent self-improvement", Wu Min also began to realize that some things are not something that can be done well by herself.
When she was harassed by the moving company, when the custody class burst the water pipe, she realized that she needed help from others.
However, Wu Min's search for help chose Sun Lei, a husband with a wife.
Although she has said many times that she has no sense of proportion, it seems forgivable to think of asking friends for help when it is difficult.
But Chen Shan and Sun Lei's mother have reminded her more than once to pay attention to keeping a distance from friends of the opposite sex, and the problems she encountered are not problems that cannot be solved with money, so why do they have to find Sun Lei?
From Wu Min's recollection, it can be seen that her deceased father is a warm man who is very good at taking care of people like Sun Lei, so it is likely that she has "empathy" for Sun Lei and projected her love for her father onto Sun Lei.
On the other hand, Lin Qingkun also quickly returned to work after a short period of depression, and there was a new improvement in his career.
Although he still did not understand what Wu Min did, under Chen Shan's point, he began to realize his shortcomings in the emotional relationship, and gradually discovered his warm male side.
However, the object of his "warmth" is his work partner Chen Shan.
Although his explanation was to ensure that the work could be carried out smoothly, he would take good care of Chen Shan.
But even Chen Shan's subordinates can see that from letting his subordinates buy medical equipment for Chen Shan to personally running the hospital for Chen Shan, Lin Qingkun's concern for Chen Shan far exceeds the specifications of ordinary colleagues.
For a businessman who is racing against the clock, Lin Qingkun's "eccentricity" towards Chen Shan has even surpassed his work as if he were life.
It can be seen that although Lin Qingkun and Wu Min have a further understanding of feelings and marriage after divorce, neither side has faced up to their emotional deficiencies, and even want to "shift the focus", and there is a tendency to transfer feelings to the "wrong person".
Obviously, until they can face up to their own emotional problems, it is not possible to reunite for the time being.
After Chen Shan's father was hospitalized because of cerebral hemorrhage, Wu Min, who helped contact the hospital, and Lin Qingkun, who sent Chen Shan to the hospital, ushered in the first face-to-face dialogue after the divorce, and once again created a long-lost "Shuluo Field".
The reason is that when Wu Min's father died, Lin Qingkun did not accompany Wu Min through the saddest moment because of his busy work.
Now in order to comfort Chen Shan, Lin Qingkun was actually able to say the beautiful words that "nothing is more important than life and death", which made Wu very sensitive to the point of not being a taste, and stopped Lin Qingkun, who was preparing to leave, on the spot and directly attacked.
However, unlike the previous performance of being angry and vague about Wu Min, Lin Qingkun sincerely apologized to Wu Min this time and explained that his original wrong approach stemmed from a lack of awareness today.
Wu Min, who was ready to make a big fuss, was suddenly confused, she never expected that Lin Qingkun would actually apologize to herself.
What caused such a big change in Lin Qingkun's attitude toward Wu Min?
Many people will blame him for his self-knowledge, because the eccentricity towards Chen Shan was "kicked" by Wu Min in front of the other husband's face, even if the psychological quality is as strong as Lin Qingkun, it will be very embarrassing, and there seems to be no better way than to apologize.
But the problem is that Wu Min and Sun Lei don't know the ambiguous story of Lin Qingkun and Chen Shan in the hospital, according to Lin Qingkun's intelligence, how could he be confused because of a matter that was not exposed?
Therefore, Lin Qingkun's apology to Wu Min here is actually from the heart. After experiencing the pain of divorce and Chen Shan's reminder, he has gradually realized where he is wrong, but he has not been able to completely change it for a while.
There is no doubt that Lin Qingkun is deeply in love with Wu Min, but he grew up in a single-parent family who is not good at how to express love correctly, and he also delusionally uses the traditional idea of "male lord outside female lead" to avoid his obligation to express love to his family.
It can be seen from the above that compared with Wu Min, who has not yet been able to find a balance in the pursuit of life value and maintaining the family, Lin Qingkun, who can face up to his own shortcomings one step earlier, is expected to become the key to the future reunion of the two.