I am Shaohua Yiyu, a writer who focuses on emotions, the weather is getting colder, may you have clothes to warm up, someone to warm your heart, I hope you can be happy every day, happiness will always follow!
Before the article begins, I would like to ask you a question about love: Can true love be pretended? I believe that some people will say yes, after all, when the ambiguity is on the head, anyone can become their own baby, but in fact, it is not really love, it can only be said to be a sense of freshness.
In fact, if you really love someone, the kind of performance that you want to be good to each other in your heart is often not pretended, and there will naturally be a certain difference between pretending and coming from the heart.
Pretending to love someone or being nice to someone often gives people a perfunctory feeling, even if you are overwhelmed by love.
Many readers often ask how to know whether the person you love is also deeply in love with yourself, in fact, this answer is the same reason, who is good to you, who is not good for you, your heart is often clear.
In real life, a man who truly loves you to the bone can also be clearly judged by a man who always plays with your feelings and pretends to be good to you on the surface, but in fact, as a bystander, including yourself.
The performance of men loving you to the bone: "three let you", don't be stupid and don't know, so that you miss the other half who truly loves yourself.
01, let you "willful"
A lot of people will think about the question, what kind of women do men really like? Is it lively and cute or steady, is it temperamental or likes to play a small temper? In fact, the man who really loves you to the bone likes not only your temper and personality, but all you have.
Many times, for most men, there is no doubt that they like the kind of good-tempered, know how to understand and understand themselves, and will naturally have an antipathy towards women who always like to make unreasonable trouble.
But the man who loves you to the bone will often make you "willful", he will not dislike you because of your temper, or leave you, and will not dislike you because of your willfulness, but the premise is not the kind of scaleless unreasonable teasing.
Let you be willful because in his heart will think that love you should not always ask you to change something, but also think that you can not let you be bound to yourself because of a love, or even affect your own life, so many times will also let you go along with your own nature.
But what I want to say is that while men make you willful, if you really love him, then don't always make unreasonable trouble without limits, and a moderate little temper will successfully attract each other, and will make men really impress you.
But if it is excessively unreasonable, over time, more times will not help your love in any way, but will only make the feelings between you slowly fade, until finally parting ways.
02, let you feel safe
In addition to wanting to get the man's love for herself in a relationship, what women need more is to get that solid sense of security, so that their hearts can be truly grounded, rather than becoming sentimental because of insecurity.
In love, although there is no absolute sense of security, when the other party is willing to give you everything, in fact, that sense of security will arise spontaneously, and your heart will naturally be able to truly appreciate the other party's determination of you.
The second manifestation of men's love for you to the bone is to make you feel safe in love, of course, this so-called sense of security is not just lip service, more often it will be expressed to you through practical actions.
For example, they will take the initiative to maintain a certain distance between the opposite sex, even if they are good friends of the opposite sex, they will not get too close to each other because of the deep relationship, but will take the initiative to maintain a certain distance when they come and go in order to make you think less.
Or to respond to everything you do, and will reply in time when you see your messages, in short, it is a sufficient sense of security, and it is exactly what you want to really get in your heart.
When a sense of security is full in a relationship, it is enough to show that the other party loves you to the bone, if it is only a pretend feeling, the self-control of keeping a distance from the opposite sex is naturally impossible.
03, let you become your own "exclusive"
The man who loves you to the bone must be the one who wants to really walk with you for a lifetime, and naturally wants you to become his own exclusive baby, and most of the time he will have a certain possessiveness towards you, which is also very normal.
If the other party always doesn't care about you, such as not caring about what friends you have around you, or the depth of the relationship between you and the opposite sex, etc., it can only be said to be a manifestation of unlove.
Although love is not a bondage, it is important to know that people are selfish, and no one will let the person they love get too close to the other person of the opposite sex, which women should really do, and they cannot be angry with men because of it.
The possessiveness of the man who loves you to the bone is not a bondage to you, but a manifestation of deep love for you, so he only wants you to be his own exclusive, and in many ways only wants you to make him the only one in this life.
We all long to have a partner who loves us to the bone, with someone who loves us deeply, and that feeling of happiness and sweetness is often what everyone wants to pursue.
At the end of the article, I sincerely hope that every reader can meet the other half who really belongs to himself and begin to belong to the happy and sweet love life between each other.
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