What kind of life will a girl have if she chooses not to get married?
This is a Q&A I I saw online, and by the time I saw it, there were already more than a million reads, more than three thousand answers, and everyone had their own opinion. I actually have my own opinion on this, although I have a shallow understanding, but I also want to say what I think.
What kind of life it will be, in fact, does not depend on getting married or not, but on your own mentality, cognition and real needs.
If you feel that it doesn't matter if you get married or not, you can live well alone, and even more inclined not to get married, and don't care about what others say, don't care about those moral kidnappings, parents can accept or you can resist the urging of your parents and various emotional cards, then under the premise of accumulating enough material conditions for yourself, your life will be very free and dashing. I have girls around me, and their life is no worse than that of people who enter marriage, and as for loneliness, there is no need to worry; sometimes even make me envious.
But this kind of life, this kind of chic, is not something that everyone can have. Choosing such a path is no easier than entering into marriage, and may even require greater courage and energy to face those inevitable problems; but if you have a little doubt about your own choices, but when you have a little concern for other people's statements and emotional cards, then the decision to "not marry" will more or less bring you some negative emotions.
So if you really want to choose not to get married, then I hope this is your real need, not because of some kind of ethos on the Internet to follow the trend, or because of some complaining about marriage and blindly making a choice. After all, everyone's ability, personality, growth environment and circle are different, she is not married very dashing, you may not be able to do it; her marriage is unhappy, you may not be sweet.
Whether or not to marry is a matter that requires careful and serious consideration. If you choose to get married, then you must be prepared to face the chicken feathers in the marriage, after all, life is not only wind and snow, but also chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar. If you choose not to get married, then you must have a strong heart to deal with all kinds of unkind remarks, and even difficulties; after all, there are not a few people who have fallen into the well. More importantly, we must work hard enough material conditions for ourselves, so that we have the courage to face various accidents, and let ourselves have the courage to fight back against those unkind remarks. After all, poetry and noodles require money, and any choice is just to make yourself better.
Finally, I sincerely wish that the girl who chose not to marry can live the life she wants. In case you can't bear the pressure and regret it, then don't do it, don't rush to choose a person to marry, the front has paid so much courage, then please don't live up to yourself at that time, even if you choose another path again, be cautious and serious.
I wish that girls all over the world can live the life they want, whether they are married or not.