Marry a domestic violence man, and you will not be able to turn over in your lifetime! Painful heartache for a lifetime! Perform well before marriage, and explode after marriage. The outsiders are shy and honest; the family is vicious and cruel. He was furious and angry for no reason, scolded for no reason, punched and kicked for no reason. The wife is a full-time housewife at home, and the husband only gives 500 yuan? It's not enough to have a cat or dog, right? Not to mention raising three people? How vicious this man is!
Being a stay-at-home mom isn't the point! If there is no one in the family to help with the children, it is possible to sacrifice one's work. The key issue is the camaraderie and understanding between husband and wife. What about this man, that is, the executive? Do not give family living expenses, no responsibility to the family, will only bully women and children, he is no more personal money, or can not wash away his own evil nature!
Indeed! Reluctant to have children! Say what women go out to work, my child is now five years old or sticky to death, not to mention the child kindergarten kindergarten can go to work. The child is not an animal or plant, he will think that the mother needs to accompany and take care of it well? There are old people to help can not stop the child to ask for mother. It is even more impossible to ignore it without the help of the elderly. It's not good for a child to throw a whole day into kindergarten. Many people don't care about their children's feelings and appeals. Only those who have children understand that there are people who are different, and some women like to work and want a salary to be able to bear the separation. Those who can't bear it are rather aggrieved to take care of their children.
Women must work after marriage! Most women also want to be able to work, but each family situation is different, for most of the generalized women unless the children go to school to have a chance to work, but even in the big city where all kinds of jobs are available, it is too difficult to find a capable and competent job, because there are children, there are families to take care of. Even if the husband is a good husband and a good father has time to take care of the children and family together, but still want the woman to pay more, of course, do not rule out a part of the selfish women! But if you only care about making yourself rich after marriage, how can you be good to your children, family, and husband? It can only be said that there are bad things about each choice, and it can only depend on how the individual chooses and how the individual's luck is!
This man needless to say, the law will give the answer, but this woman said something bad is also deserved, the first time should resist, the child is so young so before there is no child on the domestic violence; this kind of man you also want to give him a child is also deserved, 500 yuan need to write an IOU do not know that they go out to work? He grew a pig's head and suffered a child.
Women must be financially independent at all times, if men have no ability and no responsibility to raise children, then do not have children, otherwise they and their children will suffer. Women wake up and say don't be housewives, be housewives Unless the family property is in your name, once you lose your job, you are nothing, and then there will be a child who will tie you up! I have a classmate married to the countryside, a daughter of the man's family is disgusted, do not give money at all, and afraid that she will go outside to work "hook up with people", so I found a hand to do for her, take that little income to raise a daughter, the second child is the man's man's family finally raised, anyway, the life is bitter haha, typical marriage persuasion song. Women must be economically independent, if the economy and feelings, must also choose the economy, because the law is only to look at the economy, no money, once divorced, even your hard-earned baby is not yours.
Men are not good, women themselves must also be reviewed, to go out to work to support themselves, will be respected. There are many ways to work when children go out. Delivering takeaways, selling breakfast, etc., while carrying children of a few years old, while going to work, the children are older and more out of school. It's not that I'm hard to hear, women you yourself are responsible, you can't rely on men, you have to find a way. Find the Women's Federation to solve? Mothers, to set an example for their children, to work independently in order to have a sense of dignity in front of men.
Women who have children believe that 996 is the most blessed sentence. Compare to doing housewives with babies, going to work is really welfare! Who wants to be a housewife not for children? I was also reluctant to let the children's family and the elderly help me, and I died with the baby. Sometimes watching sanitation workers sweep the road are very envious, they were originally white-collar workers, it is simply lying to make money, and with children, they have begun to envy aunt sweeping. If he wants to be with his children, he is not willing to leave it to his hometown and no one comes to help him at home. Kindergarten ends at 3:50 and is more troublesome than it was before the age of three. The kindergarten is near home and I still have to leave at 3:30, and the small class only goes for half a day. The child wouldn't leave me for too long. I don't understand what it means not to be short of money to make children cry to death and go to work. When Daddy is dead? No matter what the wife is, for the sake of the children, there are people who take care of men who are not willing to pay for women are not willing to contribute to the calculation of each other, why do they get married and have children? Does it harm children?
Ask a nanny to take care of food and housing, but also pay wages, this man to 500 yuan a day on average living expenses is about 17 yuan, a meal less than six yuan, not to mention the daily necessities expenses. Children before going to school by the mother is the most conducive to the growth of children, if full-time with children, this time women can rely on their husbands, in exchange for men and work and with children to try, this man does not know how to thank the wife's efforts, will not empathize!
It is conceivable that one is flying outside all over the world, and a cat is at home concentrating on taking children. Over time, the two people's three views of interest, personality, vision, knowledge, and ability are completely different or even completely conflicted ~ ~ ~ So the sense of responsibility for men, just like the spirit of self-reliance for women, is a must. Otherwise, with the innate ambition of men and the sense of dependence that women bring from the womb, a man without a sense of responsibility and a woman with a strong sense of dependence will inevitably cause a fierce collision!!!
Hurry up and get a divorce, what can you do for 500 yuan a month? Even a nanny is not as good as a nanny, and the nanny is still thousands a month? As far as this man cooked for him and served him, he was not a human thing, and he treated his daughter-in-law in this way. Find a job to do first, make yourself financially independent, you look beautiful, get divorced, and later find a good man to kill him. Sisters, come on!
The attitude towards family is the truest character of a person. I have seen such a sentence: "Politeness to outsiders may only be smooth in dealing with the world, and leaving a good attitude to the person who loves is the cultivation that goes deep into the bone marrow." How to understand a person's real character is very simple, depending on his attitude towards his family. Because in front of the family, all disguises and masks will be removed to show the true side of a person. To see a person's true face, you can't just look at the performance in front of people, but also look at the state in front of your family. Truly cultured people know how to leave good emotions and attitudes to their families. Treating your family with a kind face is the best upbringing.