The four-step method turns on the child's intelligence

Some parents are very concerned about the growth process of their children, and when they find that their children's reading ability, English ability, etc. are slightly behind their peers, they are very anxious, and they feel that the children are not enlightened, and other people's children are smart and obedient, and so on.

In fact, such a comparison may increase the pressure on children and make them more afraid of facing "failure".

Parents' worries are common sense, but children do not know how to do it, and the parents' method is also used correctly?

Thought-provoking

Don't instill the big truth in its entirety, nor let the child think about it alone, the correct approach should be to let the child learn to think more perfectly.

If children are reluctant to use their brains to think, then parents can appropriately inspire and encourage them to think.

For example, when a child asks why it is bright during the day and dark at night, you can say it to him, because during the day the sun provides us with light and heat, and at night it leaves work and it is dark.

Such an answer is more interesting for children and can make children have fun thinking.

Engage and enjoy interacting with your child

Involved, the child's play and approach may be different from mom and dad, but in depth you can feel the wonderful difference between different ways of thinking.

People always praise the child's whimsy, but fewer people really have to listen carefully to whether there are some parts of the child's views that are worth paying attention to.

If you can seriously participate in it and interact effectively with your child, then your child can feel the joy of thinking together and will not reject thinking from the depths of your heart.

Cognition of different children

There is a difference with thinking time

Many parents will be anxious because their children are not as smart as children of the same age, afraid that their children will not be able to keep up with others.

However, according to relevant research, there are individual differences in the degree and time of brain development of different children, if you blindly compare the advantages of "other people's children are quick to think and can speak" and the shortcomings of their own children.

Then naturally it is unfair to the child, and such a comparison will not only add unnecessary annoyance, but also have little benefit.

If the child wishes

Training of children in specialized abilities

If parents really hope that their children can lay a good foundation from an early age and become more excellent in the future, then they can carry out special training or quality development in the areas that children like when trying to communicate with their children.

But remember one premise:

Interest is the best teacher, if you can let the child carry out relevant training according to interest, then the effect will be more effective with half the effort.