Before getting married, I was very disgusted with those mothers who were basking in the circle of friends, and every time I said to my mobile phone: Every day I sunbathe, what does it mean, it's really annoying!
Later, I had a baby, and I actually joined the ranks of the sunbathing baby, and every day I "dried" happily, and it turned out that the mood of being a mother in the world was the same.
I remember the most, I took more than a hundred photos of my baby a day, and I really wanted to record every moment of my baby. Moreover, I will also pick some and post them on all my social accounts, saying that it is a record of life, which is actually a happiness, or a display.
It wasn't until I once, when I saw a piece of news on the Internet, that I stopped abruptly.
In a case of extortion in Shanghai's Xuhui district, the criminal targeted him through his circle of friends and demanded money on the grounds of threatening the safety of the other party's family.
Through the circle of friends, the criminal found that a netizen often posted her baby and life, and it was obvious from the pictures and descriptions that their family conditions were very good. Including where the two children are studying, the specific time and place to participate in the summer camp, are very clear. Many of the child's positive photos have also been preserved "carefully" to collect materials for his own crimes.
After that, he wrote a letter to the family, saying that he had lost money in his business, wanted to borrow some money, and said that he would pay it back later. In the letter, he told the general situation of the family, emphasizing some information about the two children, and the words were threatening each other with the children. Fortunately, the other party called the police in time, and the case was quickly solved.
So, since then, I don't dare to just post on the Internet, it's really terrible.
Here, I would like to tell you that the 4-point network sunbathing warning:
1. Less sunbathing on the child's face
It is best not to use your child's face and head photo as a headshot, because you know at a glance that you are a treasure mother and can easily be locked by bad people. If your circle of friends has any kind of people, try not to show the child's face, it can be a side face, back shadow, etc., if necessary, you can add a sticker to the child's face.
2, do not post your child's information
The most taboo on the Internet is to post all kinds of information about children, including the child's date of birth, how old he is now, where to go to kindergarten, where his grandparents are, where his grandparents are, where his home address is, where his children usually attend interest classes, and so on.
3. Don't sunbathe your trip
Don't post your itinerary in real time, such as which park you want to play in today, where you are now, and where you will go in a while. This kind of real-time dynamics is most easily locked by bad people, which is not conducive to their own safety, especially when taking the baby out.
4, sunbathing children to choose a platform
There are many online social platforms, some are relatively private and only visible to themselves; some are relatively private, only relatives and friends can see; some are open, and all people who are online are visible. Therefore, we must make targeted choices, do not brainlessly dry casually, it is really unsafe.