Once tearing my face, now matching me and her son to remarry, the former mother-in-law's operation is too surprising

Author: Ayun Xiying Editor: Xuan Gui

Source: Journal of Marriage and Family

ID：hunyinyujiating99

01

My mother-in-law and I just faced each other

My name is Hongyu, I am a northerner, and my ex-husband Lei Gang is a southerner. A year ago, we divorced, my 5-year-old son LeLe returned to Lei Gang, and I returned to the north. Every month, I go on a business trip to lei gang's city, and I stop by to see my son.

The day before the Spring Festival last year, I was still on a business trip to Lei Gang's city. I had planned to Chinese New Year's Eve home, but my son cried and wouldn't let me go, and his grandmother tried her best to keep me, so I stayed at my ex-husband's house for the New Year.

This pass is not tight, the new crown pneumonia epidemic is fierce, I can't go back. How embarrassing it is to be forced to live with her ex-husband. This house is familiar to me and has been living here since I gave birth to my son 5 years ago. But it was also these years of coexistence that we had to part ways.

Lei Gang and his parents both love sweets, and I'm not spicy; they eat rice, but I like noodles. Without eating together, the contradictions between my mother-in-law and I are increasing day by day, and Lei Gang is gradually drifting away.

I remember one day when I came home from work, my mother-in-law said she wouldn't leave me dinner anymore. If you don't keep it, you don't keep it, I do it myself. Infuriatingly, the kitchen sink was piled high with unwashed dishes.

On the first day, I was not happy, for the sake of family harmony, brushed up. The next day, I was a little angry, and for the sake of family stability, I still brushed it. On the third day, I was very angry and stopped doing it!

Lifting a thermos bottle in his hand, he fell, "boom" a loud noise, flat ground explosion thunder. The mother-in-law heard the sound and scolded me with a straight face: "Xiao Gang has handed over all the money to you, what else do you want?" Just let's brush a bowl, you're so lazy..."

To say I can do anything, you can't say I'm lazy. "Who pays the monthly payment in the car your son drives?" If you don't leave me food, you still let me clean the dishes, you are really cruel! "After a big fight, my mother-in-law and I went back to each house.

Ray had just come home from work when his mother-in-law dragged him into the house. Sure enough, after a while, he came to ask me about the guilt.

I told the story again, lei gang said: "After you eat and do it yourself, our mother is old, it is already very good to help us with the baby!" These words were like a thorn in my heart. My mother-in-law helped me with my baby, which I was grateful for, but cooking only for a few of their families was really chilling.

The next day I got up early, boiled a dozen eggs, and boiled a big pot of millet porridge. After eating, I went to work, and when I came home from work in the evening, my mother-in-law asked me: "Why do you eat alone, why do you do so much?" I said, "If you don't cook for me, can't I cook it for you?" ”

The mother-in-law said: "Sometimes you come back to eat, sometimes you don't come back to eat, who knows if you come back to eat!" Her tone was impulsive.

"You wouldn't make a phone call and ask?" I'm also rushing. My mother-in-law turned and went into the house, and I went back to my house to play with my son.

Ben thought it was over. Who expected to come home from work the next day, just want to go to the kitchen to cook, but found a golden lock hanging on the door! Years of grievances and contradictions surged up like a tidal wave, and I ran to the yard to get an axe and smashed the lock.

02

That home has no place for me to eat...

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has escalated greatly The next day, my mother-in-law changed a bigger lock, and I took a big hammer and smashed it again. My husband, who has not spoken, scolded me: "You have hands, feet and money, can't you eat outside?" Chengxin fights with my mother? ”

"Isn't home a place to eat at all times?" I can't even eat when I go home, so why should I do this family? He was silent, and I said divorce and leave immediately. Then we left...

After a year of divorce, Lei Gang's family did not change much. The kitchen door that I smashed is still there, and the traces of the fight are still clearly visible. It's like a scar that's just scabed, and it hurts the slightest touch.

On the first night of staying, the mother-in-law prepared a good table. Mapo tofu, spicy diced chicken, boiled fish, sour and spicy potato shreds, how did these dishes appear on their table? I felt like I was in a dream.

The mother-in-law said: "Hongyu, these are all spicy dishes that you love to eat, I don't know what the taste is?" I was a little flattered, and I glanced at Lei Gang, who immediately glanced away.

I put a piece of fish in my father-in-law's bowl and said, "Try it first!" The father-in-law laughed awkwardly, and the fish coughed as soon as it was put in his mouth, but the old man said, "Delicious and delicious!" Red jade you hurry to taste. "I also put a piece into Lei Gang's bowl. He said, "You are a distinguished guest, how can you handle you?" As he spoke, he clipped the fish back into my bowl.

His mother poked him and said, "Wouldn't it be nice to talk?" After saying that, he asked me, "How are you now?" Do you have a boyfriend? If not, it would be better to remarry Xiao Gang, after all, you have a child. ”

Before I could answer, Lei Gang rushed to say, "Can people not find it?" Even if she didn't find it, she couldn't eat my grass! Besides, isn't there another girl chasing me tightly, and a strong one makes Lele call her mom! ”

Lele listened and immediately said, "Daddy lied! I only have one mom! I would bow to the wind and say to Lei Gang, "You're right, my boyfriend is good to me!" I've never thought about eating back grass! ”

In fact, I don't have a boyfriend at all, Lei Gang this wooden knot, nine times out of ten there is no woman to chase.

After dinner, my mother-in-law asked me to sleep back in my original room, which was the bedroom where Lei Gang and I used to be. They don't have extra rooms in their house, but we're all divorced, how can we sleep together? I said I slept with Lele.

There was no unsealing message in the small city, and I was trapped here and could not go back at all. Every day is like a needle felt, but my mother-in-law offers me like a god, millet porridge, buns, steamed buns in the morning, garlic noodles, fried sauce noodles, oil noodles and dumplings at noon. They have always liked to eat rice, and they even said that the pasta was delicious.

My mother-in-law was busy in the kitchen, and I was helping to peel the garlic and choose the dishes. Seeing that I did not mean to remarry, she said: "Hongyu, it was not right to be a mother before, I should not have left you food, but do you know why I did not leave it for you?" ”

This is a question I have been wondering, and naturally I would like to know. She said: "You always love to have a mouth left when you eat, no matter how much you leave, you always have a mouthful of food left, and I don't know if it is to your liking or what is the matter?" ”

03

Suddenly wanted to love this man and his home again

The mother-in-law is a rural person, who has suffered a lot and cannot be wasted. Thinking like this, she was forgivable for not leaving me food at the beginning. I was born in the city, my family also likes to talk about pomp and pageantry, and I always like to have a mouthful of food or a mouthful of soup when eating, indicating that we are "rich". Whoever wants to eat nothing will be said to be "poor acid". My mother-in-law listened to my explanation and said again that she had gone too far.

The contradiction that used to be like a fish in the throat, today when it is opened, it is only a trivial matter, and I suddenly feel that I was a little too impulsive and more real. Slowly unraveling the contradictions and knots, my mother-in-law and I began to talk about everything. After my impression of her changed, I found that Lei Gang was actually not as cold and motherly as he thought.

Isolated at home for half a month, the rice noodles and oil that had been hoarded before were gone, and if they did not purchase any more, everyone would have to drink the northwest wind. I ate and drank for so many days and gave my mother-in-law money, but she resolutely did not want it, so she offered to go to the supermarket to buy. Lei Gang was the first to stand up against it, saying: "You have poor health, in case you go out and get infected with the virus, our whole family will suffer." Can't go! "If I had said this before, I would have been anxious with him." But now it sounds like it is inexplicably pleasing to the ear?

After Lei had just purchased home, he first unloaded the large bag and the small bag, stood at the door with alcohol, sprayed himself and his belongings, and after he went into the house to wash his hands, he handed me a pink handbag containing several packs of sanitary napkins. I then remembered that the bloody paper was thrown in the bathroom, and I didn't know whether the mother-in-law saw it and reminded him, or whether Lei Gang found it himself. Anyway, I was a little moved.

After dinner that day, I rolled up my sleeves to go to the dishes, and my mother-in-law pushed me aside and said, "The water is a little cold, don't get wet, go to the house and rest!" At that moment, I really wanted to call this old lady "Mom", and I remember that in those years of marriage, I called her "Mom" a few times.

Unconsciously, he walked into Lei Gang's bedroom and opened the closet, where most of the clothes were mine. Sit down to watch Douyin, brush until there is a handsome guy dancing, I give him likes, messages. Suddenly, Lei Gang's voice came from behind him: "Just dance and hook your soul?" "In short, it's better than you." I retorted.

Lei Gang said, "How do you look like someone with a boyfriend?" Had a good year! ”

"One doesn't know how good it is! Eat delicious and spicy every day, and don't have to look at people's faces..."

Before I could finish speaking, Ray suddenly hugged me from behind and said, "Okay! Are you free enough? Enough is enough to go home. The child needs you, and I need you. ”

My heart trembled, when did this wood pimple become so fleshy?

The tears couldn't help but fall down, and the son suddenly came in again, he must have been instructed by his grandmother, otherwise how did he know to put my hands with his father, and said, "Mom, come back!" Don't go any further! ”

The child is a needle on the tip of the mother's heart, and it hurts all over the body when it is touched. The defense line in my heart completely collapsed, and I heard the mother-in-law outside the door loudly instructing my father-in-law: "Old man, hurry up and burn the fire, I will make Hongyu her favorite spicy beef noodles!" ”

Lei Gang took the opportunity to coax: "Comrade Hongyu, do you dare to remarry me?" I glanced at him and said, "Remarriage is remarriage, who is afraid of whom!" ”