In the blink of an eye, a semester of study is over again. Winter vacation life is the most anticipated period of time for children.
However, after leaving the school and getting rid of the teacher, if the parents are no longer restrained, children without self-control can easily develop bad habits.
Here, remind parents, in the winter vacation, do not let children stay away from these ten bad habits, I hope parents pay attention to it!
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Top 10 bad habits for winter vacation
In a familiar and comfortable area, people will habitually become lazy, and then fall and fall again until the end of the holiday.
How many of the following behaviors do your children occupy?
1. Don't get up until noon
"It's almost twelve o'clock when we get up to eat." At this point, you shout out to your child to get up with your loudest voice.
Within a few days of returning home, the child's life and schedule were completely disrupted.
Don't eat breakfast, don't want to wash your hair; don't want to go out, don't want to exercise.
Every day, the child is "sleeping until he wakes up naturally".
Getting up late is the norm for holidays, and the day always starts at noon.
2. Fall asleep in the early hours of the morning
Say good to go to bed early, get up early, good body, say good self-discipline, as soon as the holiday comes, it will be left behind.
Sleeping late and getting up late, completely unable to care about health.
Many children find various reasons to sleep after midnight in order to play games or watch a TV series, to chat about homework that has not yet been written.
3. The phone is the life
During the winter vacation, many parents are reflecting a common phenomenon: children are at home, either playing with computers, iPads, or holding mobile phones to watch endlessly. Always the phone is not in hand, lack of holiday life planning.
Without a reasonable holiday life schedule, children have become veritable "low-headed people" and "mobile phone control". While electronic devices bring a fresh and fun experience, they also pervasively tempt children's immature minds, and it is easy to get lost in them if they are not careful.
4. Do nothing
Opening your mouth must say "no energy", and shutting up is "not interesting", you are not interested in anything, you don't know what you like to do, you don't know what you don't like to do.
Bored but unwilling to take the step of finding interest, saying good to meet people you want to meet, dreaming what you want to do, going to the place you want to go, and learning the knowledge you want to learn.
At the end of the day, nothing sticks to it.
5. I haven't read a book for more than 24 hours
Every time I come home from vacation, the most confident thing I do is take a bunch of books home and think I'll study well.
As a result, the book that was taken back was taken back intact.
6. Spend a lot of money
During the Spring Festival, every child will receive money from the elders, and for this money, each parent's solution is different.
Most parents confiscate their children's old age money, and the excuse is usually: Mom and Dad help you collect it first, and then return it to you when you grow up.
Some parents will let their children be free at their disposal, and their children have no financial concept, and they will spend money lavishly.
In fact, pressing the old money is a sharp tool for cultivating children's financial quotient, and parents can cultivate their children's financial concepts by pressing the old age money.
Parents can let the child save the money for the age and let the child dispose of it freely, but the parents should play a supervisory role, and the parents can also help the child to take the financial management, but to discuss with the child, and the child to explain clearly, with the consent of the child, you can do this, so that the child has both a sense of participation and cultivates the child's financial concept.
7. Addicted to the game
Electronic products are the biggest enemy of children's holidays, and long-term staring at mobile phones, computers, and televisions will affect children's vision.
In this regard, parents must strictly control the time of their children's use of electronic products and resolutely follow the agreed rules.
In addition, the best way to avoid children's addiction to electronic products is that parents accompany their children more and accompany their children to do something meaningful, such as going out to play, playing games with children, etc., which will divert children's attention from electronic products.
8. Unbalanced diet
Meals are uneven, breakfast is moved to noon, lunch is moved to afternoon or dinner. Then you need to add a late night snack at night.
This is a common disease of many students during the holidays, in addition to the irregular diet, it is a serious partial diet, and excessive intake of meat products.
Vegetables and fruits are relatively small, snacks and drinks are consumed too much, boiled water is drunk less, and physical health problems occur from time to time.
9. Lack of communication
I don't know when it started when children started to hate their parents' nagging...
There are many practices that parents have made children unaccustomed to, and even made children unaccustomed, and parents who were originally close seem to become strangers overnight.
Children may be reluctant to communicate with their parents, when they are young and crazy, they always ignore the role of home, when they grow up, they are often deviant, more and more knowledge in the brain, the more they feel that their parents are nagging or even a little naïve, the more parents persuade the more disgusted they are, and even often take hostile measures with them.
10. Getting lazier
Winter vacation is cold, and many children like to stay at home and not go out, watch TV every day, and play video games to pass the time. So getting lazier!
Therefore, parents should take time out every week to take their children out, they can play some sports with their children, and they can also visit the park with their children, which not only exercises the body, but also enhances the parent-child relationship.
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More important than supplementing knowledge is making up habits
In addition to putting an end to the above ten bad habits, we also found that everyone is most concerned about whether to let children brush up on the knowledge during the holidays!
In fact, there was such a phenomenon before:
For the first time, when they know that their children's grades are not good, the first reaction of parents is "make-up lessons!" ”；
The second time the parents knew that the grades were not good, they began to worry;
The third parent-teacher meeting, directly express doubts: the child has made up lessons before! Why don't you see progress?
In fact, the gap in academic performance between children is ultimately the gap in their learning habits. After the winter vacation after the double reduction, it is better to make up for these habits.
1. Make up your reading habits
The role of reading volume in composition writing is needless to say, and winter and summer vacations are the best periods for reading a lot.
suggestion:
1. Novels, celebrity biographies, poems... Read the content and choose what interests you.
2. Master the most basic reading methods, learn to browse, skim, intensive reading and other reading methods.