Text: Xi Xihuan
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Compared with men, women are more emotional when facing feelings, especially when they love a man deeply, it is easy to do things that lose their minds, and they are willing to give everything for love.
But for men, it is not that women will definitely get their own hearts if they give their hearts to him, because love pays attention to fate and feelings.
Some men will say that even if she gives me her life, I have no feelings for her, and in the end I can only let the woman be hurt in this relationship, wasting time and energy.
So many women will have a question, how to grasp the heart of men in the end? What can be done to make a man's heart leave a most special place for himself?
Friend Wang is really a woman with a very clear goal, never drags mud and water when facing feelings, likes a man who dares to confess, and when he decides to give up, he is also clean and clean.
What puzzles people around her is that Wang Zhen seems to rarely please men in his feelings, and even sometimes silences men, but in the end men are often very infatuated with her.
Some women have such charm, they do not need to lower the standard, do not need to change their own principles, do not need to deliberately cater to men's tastes, but can firmly grasp the hearts of men, in the final analysis, these women with men, often let men have these feelings.
01 Feeling of relaxation
Friend Wang Zhen is such a smart woman, when she is with her boyfriend, she will be spoiled and willful, but she understands very well how important the timing of pampering and willfulness is.
She will never be spoiled and willful when men are busy with serious things, or in a bad mood, and she will not only care about her own feelings to force men to say those meaningless love words.
The man's career is very heavy, he is a veritable workaholic, and the girlfriends he has been in contact with before are unreasonable because he is busy with work and neglecting to accompany him, and even runs to the company to check whether he is with other women.
Over time, men are tired of such feelings, feel that they are very tired with such women, the pressure on the side of the work is great, and they have to deal with women's checks from time to time, and even spend time every day to explain their non-existent "affairs".
And with Wang Zhen is different, because she is a type of sensible woman that many men dream of, she understands when men can accept, and even enjoy women's pampering and willfulness, with her, men will only feel relaxed, no pressure.
Such a woman, how can a man not be infatuated? Now men in the society to survive the pressure is not small, especially if there is no family background, want to break out of their own world is to pay a lot, so whether a woman can make him feel relaxed, directly determines how long this relationship can last.
Feelings are like a handful of sand in their hands, women always want to hold it very tightly because of their lack of security, but the tighter they are, the more they miss a lot, and invisibly men will be farther and farther away from you.
Therefore, women should learn to be a haven for men's minds to relax, rather than increasing pressure on men.
02 The feeling of being trusted
I believe that many people understand that the most important basis in a relationship is mutual trust, if there is no trust, then everything the other party does loses the meaning of love.
Women are often prone to insecurity in their feelings, and it is precisely because they care too much about men, so they are afraid that other women will compare themselves to each other and make men change their hearts.
With doubt, a woman is prone to losing control when facing a man, and even makes up for nothing, always suspecting that the man has done something sorry for her.
But women also have to understand that if a man loves you, he will understand your uneasiness and will understand your doubts, but this will not last, because no man is willing to live in a relationship that is suspected all day long.
Men are not good at words, especially when questioned, and always need to make unnecessary explanations, which will make him bear great psychological pressure in this relationship.
Over time, men naturally do not have the energy to explain to women what they have never done at all, and they are not willing to always accept women's unwarranted doubts.
Women who can really grasp the heart of men understand what they need in this relationship, and once she identifies this man, she will believe him unconditionally, and this trust will also give men the motivation to face women with more sincere feelings.
Therefore, a man's heart is not obtained by chaining, but by trust, so that men are willing to give their true hearts to you.
03 The feeling of being adored
Every man has a heroic dream in his heart, and this hero is himself, and the smart woman will not feel that this is a man's daydream, but will understand and respect this heroic complex of men.
Even in front of women who are not their favorite, men will want to leave their own special manly side, which shows how much men care about such an image.
Once a colleague, Sister Wang, was a famous "knife mouth", and the words spoken by that mouth were always unforgiving, and it was inevitable to give people a harsh and mean impression.
What people did not expect was that she also had such an attitude towards her husband, no matter what occasion, no matter who was present, she always made many accusations against her husband, and even told everyone about her husband's troubles as a joke.
At the beginning, others also advised Sister Wang that this would make the man very faceless, but Sister Wang did not care, because her husband had never lost his temper with her because of this matter.
But later, Sister Wang finally discovered that her husband had cheated on her, and the other party was not much more beautiful than herself, but in her husband's words, he had never been respected by Sister Wang, let alone worshipped.
Although that woman is not as beautiful as Sister Wang, she will always admire herself and respect the choices she makes.
Sister Wang wanted to give her husband a chance, but her husband refused, and he directly filed for divorce, because he did not want to continue to falter his life in such a marriage that had never been respected and understood.
Of course, cheating is not right, but with such a result, I have to say that Sister Wang herself also has to bear certain responsibilities, if she knows how to respect her husband and shows admiration from time to time, how can a man's heart run?
Adoring a man doesn't mean how great a man has to do, how much he has to accomplish, just because you love him and want to hold his heart.
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