A male netizen asked me for help and cried as he spoke. It hurts me to see. He said that he saw a video about a strong wife and husband gambling, separated for a year before they were willing to meet, unexpectedly, when they met again, it was already yin and yang, the wife cried bitterly, I don't want such a result, I regret it, you come back. But no matter how she wailing, it would not help. And their son was on the sidelines, silently weeping, crying out hatred in his heart...
The netizen said that it will be the New Year soon, and he has a very bad year. Because she did not earn money, her hands were very unobtrusive, and her wife gave her a face all day, although she could complain directly, but she was very dissatisfied in her heart, and her whole expression was very embarrassing. His wife's requirements are high, he can't be satisfied for a while, and the two people have often been angry over the years, sometimes quarreling, sometimes secretly competing. For the parents are indebted, the parents are not in good health, want to go home often to see, more than 100 miles, but every time they go home, they are opposed by their wives. Therefore, the heart has been suppressed for a long time. I also know that everything is my own problem, and if I make enough money, these problems are not a problem. However, since the store was transferred out, the past two years have not been smooth, and the money earned is only enough to live and repay the mortgage. Therefore, he is under a lot of pressure inside. Seeing that video, he was very sad about the man, worried that he would one day be like him, and he didn't know how pitiful the children and parents would be if that happened?
The video that netizens said, I also watched. Men have today's consequences because of a gambling act by their wives a year ago. They were married for more than ten years, and within a few years of their marriage, the two gave birth to a son. My son is now an adult. The originally happy and happy family, but because of a small contradiction a year ago, caused this result today. Over the years, the two have been working hard in Beijing. But in the process, the two people often quarrel over small things. After the quarrel, the woman can never forgive the man. The wife has a strong personality, no matter whose fault it is, the wife always does not admit mistakes, does not accept softness, and every time it is a man who bows his head and admits his mistakes.
However, a year ago, this contradiction, the man was really angry, did not admit his mistake, and has been fighting with his wife. Although he later confessed his mistake, his wife never forgave him and asked for separation. This makes men very unacceptable. Later, the wife returned to her hometown in a huff, and she didn't care about any business.
After his wife left, the man's life was more casual, he didn't think about himself at all, and only worked hard to earn money. He thought all this was caused by his inability to make a lot of money and let his wife suffer. Coupled with a bad mood, bad eating, and tiredness, finally fell ill. Sick, he did not say a word, hard resistance. The health is getting worse and worse. Finally, one day, he suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and was taken to the hospital. Because no one found out in time, when sent to the hospital, the best rescue time was missed, and he fell into a deep coma, and could only wait for the worst result. At this time, the wife was notified and hurried from her hometown, looking at her dying husband, she cried into tears...
Imagine if there is no contradiction, if there is no gambling, if there is no separation, will a man's mood and life be better than it is now? Even if you are sick, when there are people around you, can you get timely help? However, life is broadcast live every day, where is the chance of regret?
Some people say that strong women are better at being strong in their careers and should not be strong in their own families at all. There is a saying that everyone understands, home and everything is happy, family harmony, life will get better and better. The family is not harmonious, and all kinds of troubles are entangled. Men are very tired, women are also very tired, anyone, any couple since they have joined hands, they must face all kinds of difficulties in life together, even if the days are not the state they want, adjust their mentality to work together, fight together, encourage each other and warm, will always get through the difficulties.
If you face life is not satisfactory, you always feel that the other party is not hard enough, not strong enough, not capable enough, always blame the other party for dissatisfaction and complaints, so that the other party is depressed, the state is not good, and can only be a vicious circle. Therefore, sometimes people say that a woman who loves to laugh will have a good life. In fact, it is not that it is good to laugh, but that women with a good attitude are blessed. A woman with a bad mentality, a strong woman, a woman with negative energy, will always have a bad life, because she is not satisfied, and no matter how good it is, she will feel unsatisfactory. Sooner or later, such a woman will regret it, and sooner or later she will have to bear the results she does not want for her own mentality. Waiting to understand this truth, it may be too late! Therefore, sincerely appeal, those strong women, strong men, can be aware of their own problems, quickly adjust themselves, and cherish their lives.
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Today's topic: Some people say that strong women are forced by men, do you think it is? What do you think about that?