Author | Inspector (1507 words, about 4 minutes to read)
People often use "color" as a metaphor for a child's inner world.
For example, I've heard someone say before: "The inner world of children is colorful, and what they see is different from what we see." ”
Children's preference for color actually reflects the personality "traits" of the child's inner world, and in it, there are several colors that are biased towards "depressive quality", and such children need parents to "understand" them and care for them.
★ What color the child likes, it is likely to represent the child's "personality preference", parents do not careless
Yang Yang, the child of the downstairs neighbor, is 9 years old this year, and he likes art class the most, not only in school, but also in his biggest hobby when he returns home. However, Yang Yang does not like to talk, and his personality is somewhat introverted, and Yang Yang's parents do not care about this.
However, one day the teacher found the home and had a deep conversation with Yangyang's parents, so that the parents realized that there was something unusual about their children.
Yangyang rarely uses fresh colors such as orange, yellow and green, but he also does not like black, but prefers purple and dark green. Yangyang's teacher had studied children's behavior, so he quickly noticed the details of Yangyang's preference for these two colors, so he found Yangyang's parents and reminded them to pay attention to two things.
Children who prefer purple tend to be more sensitive, proud, and stubborn.
Many children like purple, but do not understand the meaning it represents, in general, children who like purple, the heart is often accompanied by a sense of alienation from the surrounding environment.
Therefore, what is needed is not only for parents to communicate and interact with their children, but also for parents to try to understand their hearts.
Otherwise, once the child solidifies this trait, he will often consciously or unconsciously keep a distance from everything around him, thus becoming more and more sensitive, proud and stubborn.
Children who prefer dark green prefer to immerse themselves in their own world, thus increasing their sense of control.
● Children who like dark green often crave attention in their hearts, but they are afraid of being pinned high hopes and attention.
Always like to immerse themselves in their own world, if you are not careful, it is easy to derail from the outside world, and even become more and more isolated and unsociable. Therefore, if your children like purple, parents must also pay attention to it.
When purple meets dark green, Yang's personality may become more and more self-contained and closed, which is called "depressive quality" in color psychology.
This trait tends to give birth to writers, philosophers, and thinkers;
It may be very conducive to creating work, but it is also easy to get too caught up in their own small world, so that they are disconnected from social and become isolated.
Therefore, the teacher hopes that Yangyang's parents can give Yangyang more care and attention in detail.
In addition to purple and dark green, what other colors represent?
★ Kids who love red
● In general, children who prefer red are usually accompanied by abundant energy and vitality.
While protecting their children's enthusiasm and vitality, parents should also consciously hone their children and let them learn an important ability, that is, to sit still and sink their hearts.
Because, only in this way can children control the "stirring vitality" in their own bodies.
★ Kids who love yellow
● Children who like yellow tend to have a more calm and down-to-earth personality.
But the fly in the ointment is that children are easy to be decent, have creation but dare not create, and are afraid of making mistakes.
Therefore, how to encourage children to be more courageous is what parents need to pay attention to.
★ Kids who love blue
Blue is often referred to as the embodiment of "melancholy," and children who love blue often maintain a keen sense of the world and the things around them.
This type of child has good empathy skills, but it is also easy to become "melancholy" because of this.
What parents need to do is not to forcibly change their children, but to guide their children to turn "melancholy" into a peaceful and tranquil temperament, so that they are more different and calm when things happen.
In short, children's preferred colors are often a reflection of their inner world.
Parents should not force changes, because it will only make the child feel denied, gradually become more and more depressed, and lose himself. Only kindness and guidance can make children harvest unexpected surprises, make children more like themselves, and become different individuals.
Spicy Mom Quotes:
Children like things often from the side of their inner world, color for children, although colorful, they like a certain color is also their right, but if the child stubbornly choose only a few kinds, and reject other colors or do not correctly distinguish the color, then parents have to intervene.
Proper understanding of the child's heart, let them say their own ideas, the correct guidance of the child, in order to avoid the child's extreme personality, to help them grow healthier.
Parents, which colors do your children prefer?
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