When Yang Yang was more than 2 years old, his mother went out to work, and was usually taken care of by his grandmother. In order to take care of Yangyang more conveniently, Grandma bought a small diaper for Yangyang, which was placed at the bathroom door during the day and taken back to the room at night. When Yangyang was small, this small urinal was indeed very useful, but it was used until the age of four. Yang Yang is now watching TV in the living room, he has the intention of peeing and does not want to go to the toilet, but asks his grandmother to take out the urinal and put it away. Grandma is also afraid that Yang Yang will wet her pants, so she will go to the urinal tray as fast as possible every time. Over time, Yangyang has developed into a child who will not ask grandma to take a urine tray until the last moment, and as a result, he went to kindergarten, and the teacher has no way to take care of it all the time, so Yangyang has become the most frequent wet pants child in the class. Because of this, Yang Yang became even less fond of school, and every time he mentioned going to school, he would cry for a while.
Indeed, cases like Yangyang are still very common in life, but the first thing parents do is not to blame the child, but to let the child know that this is a very normal phenomenon, everyone may have such a thing in the process of growing up, only timely correction can be, there is no need to affect their life and mood for this matter.
Parents must be gentle in their attitude and tone when telling their children about this matter, do not let the child feel stressed, if the method is not exquisite, it may cause a bad psychological shadow to the child. Besides, excretion is a basic physiological need, and there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Parents should also pay more attention to the child's toilet signal, and give a little appropriate reminder every day after finding the pattern, and the child will be more receptive. Then help the child to better train the toilet, spend more thought and preparation, and let the child become active and willing to go to the toilet. For example, install a children's toilet ring and a footstool on the adult toilet, because it is fresh and children will be interested.