In married life, if two people are together for too long, they will inevitably produce bored emotions. Marriage is like a cup of boiled water, when two people are just together, because they are full of passion for marriage and full of hope for the future, so under such emotions, this cup of boiled water will become very sweet.
However, as the marriage time continues to grow, the passion between the two people slowly recedes. In life, two people no longer have the original passion for each other, and even when they hold hands, they feel that they are just holding their left hands and right hands. In such a situation, the sweet water will become tasteless again. In such a tasteless marriage, some people will not be able to control their hearts, and thus do something cheating.
Some people still want to return to the family after cheating, but after tasting the sweetness of cheating, how can they be willing to marry this cup of boiling water?
Recently, Chen Songzhi betrayed her 8-year marriage at a classmate reunion.
Bland married life
Chen Songzhi and her husband An Guiping met through blind dates, although there was no vigorous love between the two people, but since the two people got married, they have been very affectionate.
Chen Songzhi entered a foreign company after graduating from college, but after she started working, she focused all her efforts on work, so she ignored her life's events. And Chen Songzhi's friends around her saw that she was slow to find a boyfriend and began to introduce her to the blind date.
Originally, Chen Songzhi did not want to go on a blind date, because she felt that work was the most important thing for her, but she originally wanted to refuse, but her colleagues did not give her a reason to refuse, and directly sent the time and place of the meeting, so Chen Songzhi had to compromise. After Chen Songzhi met An Guiping, she was also satisfied with An Guiping, and An Guiping was also satisfied with her during the blind date, so after meeting for the first time, the contact between the two people gradually became more.
After the two people got to know each other for a while, they quickly went to see the parents of both sides, and the parents of both sides were also very satisfied with the marriage, so the two people married under the blessing of their parents after talking about love for half a year.
Soon after the two were married, Chen Songzhi became pregnant, and soon Chen Songzhi gave birth to a son. But after the birth of their son, the ordinary life of the two people did not have a ripple.
Cheating at a class reunion
After 8 years of marriage between Chen Songzhi and An Guiping, Chen Songzhi is also 35 years old. But the married life of the two people is still as flat as ever, and Chen Songzhi's daily sustenance is only his own son. Since Chen Songzhi gave birth to a son, the feelings between the two people have become more and more weak.
In Chen Songzhi's bland married life, the invitation to the class reunion also completely changed this bland life. That day, chen Songzhi suddenly received a call from the head of the college class after returning home from work, informing her that there was a class reunion this week. Originally, Chen Songzhi did not plan to go, but she felt that perhaps the class reunion was the beginning of changing her ordinary life, so she still chose to attend the class reunion.
When Chen Songzhi arrived at the class reunion, he found that his first love had actually come. After the two people met, Chen Songzhi heard him say that he was now married and had his own daughter. After chen songzhi listened, she also generously blessed him. But after seeing and listening to her ex-boyfriend's words, Chen Songzhi still drank two more drinks. Because Chen Songzhi's alcohol intake was very poor, after two glasses of wine, she immediately went out from the meeting place and prepared to take a taxi home. But just when she came out, she found that her ex-boyfriend had also chased her.
The ex-boyfriend saw that Chen Songzhi was not lightly drunk, so she was not at ease to go home alone, but after Chen Songzhi saw her ex-boyfriend chase out, she couldn't help but think of the time when the two people were together, and then think about her and her husband's current bland marriage, Chen Songzhi had the idea of cheating.
After having such an idea, Chen Songzhi directly hugged her ex-boyfriend. And Chen Songzhi's initiative also made the ex-boyfriend not hold his heart. So Chen Songzhi directly sent a message to her husband that she would stay at the same school for one night, and An Guiping only instructed Chen Songzhi to drink less and did not ask too much.
Therefore, Chen Songzhi and her ex-boyfriend also had a relationship. After the two people cheated on each other, they regretted it, because the two people now have their own families after all, so after the relationship between the two people, they chose to tacitly agree as if it did not happen.
Infidelity was discovered
Chen Songzhi and her ex-boyfriend had already said that the two people would treat the betrayal of the marriage as if it did not happen. But once people have tasted the taste of infidelity in life, it is difficult to stop. So soon after the class reunion, the two people reconnected.
After the two people began to contact, they both chose to maintain the tacit connection between the two people outside the marriage. But there is no impermeable wall in the world, especially in the marriage of choosing to cheat, this matter was soon discovered by An Guiping.
After knowing about his wife's cheating, An Guiping did not dare to believe it at first, because the two people had been married for 8 years, and he did not think that Chen Songzhi would choose to betray himself and the marriage regardless of the feelings of the two people for 8 years and the feelings of the children. But now that the facts were in front of his eyes, he could not believe it. Therefore, he directly filed for divorce with Chen Songzhi.
After her husband proposed a divorce with herself, Chen Songzhi also felt very regretful, remembering her experience of cheating, she couldn't help but sigh that "there was no passion in the 8 years of marriage, and when the classmates gathered, I forgot the shame."
After An Guiping filed for divorce, although Chen Songzhi did not want to end the marriage, she looked at the evidence of her own cheating in front of her, and she could not argue. Therefore, the two people soon went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures. Because of Chen Songzhi's derailment, at the time of divorce, although An Guiping still divided the property of the two people equally, he did not choose to give in to the matter of the child. So in the end, Chen Songzhi also lost the custody of the child.
In married life, in fact, blandness is the norm in married life. But there are some people who are used to being in a violent relationship, so it is difficult for them to accept the bland life after marriage. So we often see that some people after marriage, because they feel that their lives are too plain, so they choose to use cheating to find excitement.
But the matter of cheating, no matter who it is in married life, is very difficult to accept. Especially in married life, for a man, if they know their other half, they choose to betray themselves. Then for them, it is a very difficult thing to accept. And if once in the married life, they find out that the other half has betrayed themselves, then it is difficult for the marriage between the two people to continue to last.
In married life, the way to keep the marriage going is from the loyalty of two people to the marriage. Fidelity is the cornerstone of a marriage, and in a marriage, only by being faithful can there be the possibility of continuing. In life, we can often see that although some people have done things that betray their other half, they still want to seek the forgiveness of their other half. However, such an approach is undoubtedly difficult to achieve. In life, even if one person chooses to forgive himself, the other half betrays himself. Then the feelings of two people are difficult to return to the original appearance. And instead of carrying a knot like this, in the marriage will be settled, it is better to choose to simply leave.
Marriage is actually a very selfish thing, so in marriage, there is no room for the existence of a third person. If you choose to betray each other in your marriage, then the marriage is over when you choose to betray.
Today's Topic:
If, in the course of your life, you found that your other half had chosen to betray you, what would you do?
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