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At a class reunion, if your classmate has the following five behaviors, it means that he is hurting you

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There is a saying that goes: "Many people who look like friends are not actually friends, and many who are friends do not appear like friends." ”

True friendship for adults is very quiet. People who are willing to help you often do not contact you often, and those who want to leave you will not even say hello.

When we took the first step out of the campus, many of our classmates naturally became friends. Some students, working together, made their careers flourish.

In fact, with the passage of time, most of the students will "look beyond recognition". When we get together again, we can't be as simple as we were then.

If you attend a class reunion, you must understand that the following five behaviors, ostensibly to please you, are actually hurting you, please learn to refuse.

At a class reunion, if your classmate has the following five behaviors, it means that he is hurting you

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First, liability injury: leave the party schedule to you.

It is reasonable to say that most of the people who organize class reunions are "class cadres". The class leader took the lead, and the study committee, sports committee, deputy class leader, etc., participated together to set up a preparatory committee.

However, after graduating from school, it is not that the "class cadres" will mix well, but some very ordinary classmates who are mixed up in society. Therefore, people will elect him to take the lead and become the organizer.

There is also a possibility that someone who wants to attend a class reunion will push an honest person out and let him arrange the party schedule. Collect money, order meals, checkout, rent a car, arrange entertainment activities, etc., all let him do it.

If you let you take the lead in organizing the party, you will feel that you are the "first person" in the class, very spirited. In fact, you have to be busy for a long time. Inviting classmates to parties and saying a lot of good things seems to be begging them to come.

Spending time and energy is a small thing, and some people think that you are taking the opportunity to "accumulate wealth". You said that you posted a lot of phone bills and supplemented some fees. No one believed it.

Organizing parties is often "lifting a stone and dropping it on your own feet", when the party, everyone is very happy, only you, become a waiter, in case of unexpected situation, you have to be responsible. Wronged or not?

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Second, physical injury: persuade you to drink hard, not to get drunk and not to return.

When gathering, flattery is inevitable.

If everyone praises you, they are not envious of you, but play you like a monkey. Everyone wants to see you drunk.

There are also some people who take the trouble to get you drunk and go to the gambling card. One after another, the money in your pocket becomes their money.

When people reach a certain age, try to stay away from the "liquor bureau". Whether the feelings are good or not is not brought about by drinking, but by mutual sincerity and mutual help.

If someone pours you a drink, you should immediately be vigilant and look for opportunities to stay away. Hurt the body, but also lose money, really people and money.

At a class reunion, if your classmate has the following five behaviors, it means that he is hurting you

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Third, emotional hurt: envying your love affair at school and matching you with "him."

One of my junior high school classmates, Xiao Li, said at the party: "At the beginning, I liked the deputy class leader. However, at that time, my grades were very poor, and I did not dare to confess. ”

Someone coaxed Xiao Li to the deputy squad leader, let them drink a glass of wine, and took a photo to commemorate the occasion.

I don't know why, this photo was sent to the circle of friends and was forwarded by many people. The deputy squad leader's lover saw it, was furious, and almost divorced.

Xiao Li's lover saw it, didn't say anything, and went directly back to her mother's house, unwilling to come back for a month.

The writer Lin Qingxuan once said: "Reason is only a part of life, feelings are the whole of life; there are some things in life, you miss a minute is already missing a lifetime." ”

Missed love is something that can't be found. Even if you find it, it will become tainted, and it will even hurt because of it.

Someone has matched you with your "old lover" to take pictures, or even renew the frontier, to prove that he is not at ease and is destroying your marriage. If you accept it, you are being teased.

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Fourth, heartbreak: turn over the rotten things you've done and praise you.

Everyone's youth has a detour to take.

At the beginning, we thought that taking a detour was "fighting the sword and going to the end of the world", which was very remarkable, and we didn't know that we made mistakes.

For example, naughty classmates who steal things at the school gate still think they are "thieves"; some female classmates, who fall in love with male teachers, write love letters, and think that they are a person with pursuits.

Turn over the rotten things of the past and talk about it with relish. You think that you are remembering your youth, but in fact, you are turning over old accounts, constantly enlarging the dark side of life.

If the scandal becomes the talk of the classmates, you will be very uncomfortable and lose your image. There are also some classmates who will slander you and make you unable to lift your head.

At a class reunion, if your classmate has the following five behaviors, it means that he is hurting you

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Fifth, family harm: Talk nonsense to your family and turn over ugly things.

When I was at a high school reunion, the female classmate Xiaohua said: "Old Li, I heard that you are divorced again, congratulations?" Who cares about your children? ”

Then, many students should agree: "Men have forty-one flowers." Divorced men can casually find a clever daughter-in-law. ”

Old Li was silent for a long time, not knowing how to answer. I understand that he must be reluctant to this family, and he has not completely come out of the pain of divorce.

Taking a person's family affairs as a talking point will implicate a lot of "branches and branches". Most couples are not first in love with each other, or even married for the first time. Once it is said, the invisible side of the relationship becomes transparent.

Every family has a difficult scripture to read. Whoever tries to talk about your family affairs, you have to play dumb puzzles, pretend to be confused, and then change the topic, otherwise it is to expose the scars.

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The flow of years is easy to pass, time is easy to throw people away, worried about you, may you have thousands of blessings to accompany you.

"Classmate love, lifelong love", sometimes it is just wishful thinking. It is enough to bless each other from afar and greet each other often. Meet without meeting, don't expect too much.

If you don't want to attend a class reunion, or want to leave early, do this: first, keep quiet and not be the protagonist of the party; second, explain the situation in advance and find an excuse to leave; third, be friends with sincere classmates and alienate those who like to sing high-profile; fourth, don't talk about your own family, and don't talk about other people's families.

It takes a few years to build a classmate relationship, destroy a relationship, and get together once.

Students, on the day of graduation, cry when you want to cry, laugh when you want to laugh, confess what you want to confess, hug if you want to hug.

Walk out of the school gate, the end of the world, each of them is safe.

Author: Cloth coarse food.

Follow my words and go into your heart.

The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.

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