Someone once asked, what are the underrated female stars in the entertainment industry? Hao Lei's high praise vote with absolute superiority became the first answer to this question.
From the proud and beautiful Concubine Jing in "Young Heavenly Son" to the helpless and persistent mother Lu Xiaojuan in "Dear", Hao Lei has all presented the character psychology of the character to the fullest.
However, as an actor who is always sincere and refined in her acting career, Hao Lei, who pays for her feelings and marriage equally regardless of returns, her private life is far less than the smooth success of her career.
Hao Lei began acting with empty hands, fell in love with Deng Chao fiercely, formed a good relationship with Li Guangjie, and fought with outsiders in the circle.
Showbiz has been floating and heavy for more than twenty years, and Hao Lei, who is already middle-aged, has accumulated rich and exquisite performance experience and well-known recognition, but she lacks some luck in her feelings, and the two marriages have not been white-headed to old.
It can be said that it is precisely because of Hao Lei's stubborn and persistent personality that she forgets herself in love that her love road is so bumpy, and this is also inseparable from Hao Lei's young growth environment.
01 Strict tutoring, independent personality, Hao Lei with professionalism to achieve their own
In the early winter of 1978, Hao Lei was born in a military family in Tonghua, Jilin Province.
Because his father was a soldier, he served in the army for many years. The only thing that accompanied Hao Lei in the family was her strict mother. Before the age of 3, Hao Lei hardly saw her father.
When Hao Lei's mother was pregnant, the family thought Hao Lei was a boy, and Hao Lei found out that it was a daughter after she was born.
Although Hao Lei is the only daughter in the family, Hao Lei's father, who was born in the military, has a taciturn personality, is not good at words, and rarely expresses his concern and love for his daughter Hao Lei. Because he has not been with Hao Lei for a long time, and his style of acting has a distinct military spirit, Hao Lei's relationship with his father can be said to be estranged and cold.
From childhood to adulthood, her parents treated Hao Lei more like a boy. Whenever Hao Lei made a mistake, she would be harshly taught by her parents, either beaten or punished, and there was never any warmth.
Hao Lei once recalled that Hao Lei had a car accident with her mother, and because her mother's condition was more serious, Hao Lei's father returned from the army and took care of Hao Lei's mother, who had been hospitalized for a long time, and put Hao Lei in her grandmother's house.
For a full year and a half, Hao Lei had not been able to see her parents. Young Hao Lei thought that she had been abandoned by her parents and had become an orphan.
Since then, Hao Lei has had a distance in the face of her parents, no longer spoiled, no longer attached. She learned to hide her thoughts and tears, and grew up alone in silence.
However, looking at other people's daughters are all pampered and pleasant, Hao Lei's desire for warmth has become stronger and stronger under such treatment, and she has always been emotionally over-invested in adulthood, hurting others and hurting herself.
Although her parents are not around, Hao Lei's little girl nature of loving literature and art has not been erased.
Due to her love of song and dance performances since childhood, Hao Lei has been on the stage since she was 4 years old. At the age of 15, Hao Lei, who has an independent personality, dragged her suitcase all the way from Jilin Station to Shanghai, played a high school student in "Green Apple Red Apple", and began her acting career.
In 1996, at the age of 18, Hao Lei was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy. The exquisite and classical facial features and the personality of daring to think and dare to do make Hao Lei quite popular with the famous teacher Li Xuetong, who has cultivated stars such as Chen Hong and Nie Yuan, is a well-established performance artist in the industry.
In the second year of college, Hao Lei and Li Chen co-starred in "Seventeen Years Old Don't Cry". Although the work has not been widely disseminated, with extraordinary talent and hard work, Hao Lei's performance has gradually matured under the guidance of Li Xuetong, and with systematic theoretical guidance and diligent practice, Hao Lei's acting skills have undergone qualitative changes compared with the previous casual exploration.
Soon after graduation, Hao Lei got the role of Jingfei, who has a cheerful and outspoken personality in "Young Heavenly Son". Although Jingfei's unsympathetic and cold arrogance is not likable, Hao Lei makes the audience remember her with this role.
Hao Lei, who has gradually achieved success in her career, has a name in the entertainment industry, but in order to avoid repeatedly performing the same type of role, Hao Lei tries to choose a role that is different from the previous role when taking each play.
Independent career choice, independent thinking, independent drama.
Hao Lei wrote "independence" into her every decision with actions, and her love and devotion to the acting career made her acting career constantly make breakthroughs. For Hao Lei, the care that has never been satisfied since the family, and excellent acting skills have also made up for Hao Lei's self-confidence and self-esteem to a certain extent.
02 Hao Lei is too strong on love, encounters people unladylike, and is betrayed by friends
In 2001, Deng Chao, who played the Shunzhi Emperor in "Young Heavenly Son", and Hao Lei became acquainted with hao lei in the drama and became an enviable screen couple. The sweetness and love of the two are undisguised, although Hao Lei is one year older than Deng, but both of them are the good years of youth, and the enthusiasm and vitality between each other are difficult to suppress.
In order to prove their love for each other, the two also got tattoos on their bodies, and they were very possessive of each other. When they first interacted, Hao Lei was more famous than Deng Chao, and Deng Chao was worried that Hao Lei had run away with others, and later Deng Chao gradually became famous, so hao Lei was afraid that he would run.
At a young and vigorous age, Hao Lei's investment in love is like playing a bet, even if she loses all her chips.
When Deng Chao filmed "Kang Nanhai", there was a scandal with the actress Feng Jing of the same crew, and after Hao Lei learned the news, she immediately rushed to find Deng Chao in front of the plane overnight. Not only did it delay Hao Lei's work, but it also attracted the media.
If the director of the crew did not quickly appease Hao Lei, the consequences would surely be more serious.
Such a couple with such a personality is both a good couple and a joyful enemy.
However, when Lou Ye's "Summer Palace" found Hao Lei, Deng's self-esteem beyond her boyfriend could not accept Hao Lei taking on such a large-scale nude scene, and Hao Lei also rejected Lou Ye for a time.
At that time, Lou Ye had already found 400 actors for the role of Yu Hong, and Hao Lei was the only one who rejected him.
When Lou Ye knew that Hao Lei rejected him because of Deng Chao, Lou Ye felt that Hao Lei, who was willing to give up the opportunity for self-development for love, was the Yu Hong he was looking for.
In order to reject Lou Ye, Hao Lei took over a TV series after meeting Lou Ye, but in order to let Hao Lei take over Yu Hong, Lou Ye would rather miss Liu Ye and change it to Guo Xiaodong to reshoot.
Lou Ye's painstaking loneliness to the work touched Hao Lei, and Hao Lei, who had a very high pursuit in her career, still took over the film, and Deng Chao's relationship with Hao Lei was rifted, and gradually drifted away after the film was filmed.
Perhaps the love of youth was too hot, after the breakup, Deng Chao and Hao Lei both invariably tried to avoid contact with the same frame. When the news of Deng Chao and Sun Li's marriage came out, Hao Lei blessed on Weibo: Fu Lin, happiness, happiness.
In 2005, Hao Lei and Li Guangjie starred in "Secret Order 1949", also because of the drama, Li Guangjie was amazed by Hao Lei's superb acting skills, and Hao Lei also had a good feeling for Li Guangjie, who was born from an ordinary background and has been self-reliant.
Although it was another sister-brother love, Li Guangjie's calm and calm personality was completely different from Deng Chao's, and Hao Lei, who longed for a family and a stable life, and Li Guangjie quietly received a certificate after a year of falling in love.
It's just that for Li Guangjie, who is accustomed to being conservative and secure, marriage is just a private matter that does not need to be exposed too much. After the two were married for more than a year, Li Guangjie admitted the marriage to the outside world.
However, shortly after the public relationship, Li Guangjie was derailed before the wedding, and for a time, thousands of people pointed it out, and public opinion accused him of misconduct.
In 2009, the two-year short marriage came to an end. However, Hao Lei, who refused to give up, publicly rebuked Li Guangjie in order to dispel his anger, and also took Li Guangjie's ancestral hometown of Henan with him.
After this incident, although Hao Lei was angry, the public opinion of the Internet and society no longer supported and relieved her as before, and Hao Lei also learned from it and no longer used public resources to solve private grievances.
Hao Lei, who has been emotionally frustrated many times, has also gained a certain popularity in the international film industry with "Summer Palace", and she has received many scripts after her divorce, regarding her career as her life.
In 2011, Hao Lei came into contact with the heroine of "Never Look Away" that year, and also recommended her "younger brother" Guo Jiaming to the crew.
In order to express his gratitude to Hao Lei, Guo Jiaming was even more enthusiastic and close to Hao Lei. Because Guo Jiaming had expressed his sexual orientation to Hao Lei, Hao Lei did not deliberately keep a distance from Guo Jiaming in front of people.
When attending the publicity campaign, the two were so intimate that they were arrested and caught in the media, but Guo Jiaming was vague when interviewed by the media, which made people unclear.
Due to the negative impact of the scandal, the crew decided to replace Hao Lei, and when Hao Lei sued the crew after learning about it, she once again encountered Guo Jiaming's "two ribs inserted knife" and was completely betrayed by the other party.
After several twists and turns, Hao Lei finally won the case, and Guo Jiaming was discredited and despised by everyone. However, due to wasting time on litigation, Hao Lei also missed many opportunities.
The experience of encountering people again and again has made Hao Lei learn a lesson and no longer be a stepping stone to make wedding dresses for others.
03 Two marriages and two departures, Hao Lei took the baby alone, dare to love and dare to hate without complaint or regret
In 2012, the 33-year-old Hao Lei and Lou Ye collaborated again on "The Mystery of the Floating City", and with this play, she was nominated for the Golden Horse Award for Best Actress that year.
Her career has achieved great results, and Hao Lei's love life has also progressed.
The second marriage, it is inevitable to repeat the same mistakes, Hao Lei specially asked Liu Ye to attend the press conference of "Floating City Mystery", because she knew in advance that the crew would arrange some stills of Lou Ye's previous works at the press conference, including Hao Lei's large-scale fragments in "Summer Palace", and in the face of Hao Lei's inquiry of "you will not feel embarrassed", Liu Ye just said bluntly: "I came to see the movie, not to discuss problems with you." ”
This answer gave Hao Lei a reassuring pill, hao Lei, who has always shown her independence and stubbornness, gradually removed her armor and became a happy little woman in a simple and plain life.
Hao Lei held a low-key wedding with Liu Ye, an outsider. After experiencing too many ups and downs, Hao Lei's family concept is also gradually maturing, and her life after marriage is calm and warm, and Hao Lei also gave birth to a pair of twin sons.
In a peaceful life, Hao Lei's good works are also frequently out of the circle. Without emotional baggage, Hao Lei's ordinary portrayal of small people in real life is more solid.
In the face of the media, Hao Lei is always smiling and welcoming, more motherly and warm.
Unfortunately, the gap between the circle and lifestyle of the two is still too large, and in 2019, Hao Lei announced her divorce.
After the divorce, Hao Lei returned to her parents' home. Faced with the parents who gave her life, the weary Hao Lei, like a little girl who craves candy, can't help but ask her father to give her a hug.
However, the father is still the father of the past, and he said loudly to Hao Lei: What is the use of hugging!
The warmth that Hao Lei has longed for all her life is difficult to pity this strong girl, making Hao Lei's young psychological wounds always difficult to heal.
When seeing Hao Lei's experience in participating in the interview program, people sighed about her ups and downs, but also couldn't help but think again that Hao Lei had dared to love and hate, as if everything had an answer.
When Hao Lei participated in the variety show of the performance competition as a judge, her speech and insight were also spread on the Internet, and with her enthusiasm from the film half of her life, Hao Lei's professional comments and objective attitude also won the audience's goodwill.
After the divorce, Hao Lei did not hear the news of remarriage, but the photos of her taking her two sons out of the house were also noticed by many people with hearts. Removing the decorations set by various characters in front of the screen, Hao Lei is very simple in life.
Hao Lei, who raised her two sons alone, and Yu Hong, who was full of personality and sharpness in the former "Summer Palace", but for Hao Lei, she was becoming more and more mature, but she only understood that She was clumsy and clumsy.
04 Return to the family, settle for the plain, forgive the father, and gradually reconcile with life
Perhaps in order to no longer let her son experience the loneliness and helplessness he had experienced, Hao Lei's works were gradually reduced, and he accompanied his two sons as much as possible.
After reducing some workload, Hao Lei gradually appeared in some variety shows and was invited to participate in Xu Zhiyuan's "Thirteen Invitations".
The cold-natured Hao Lei's statement in the show unfolded with the growing familiarity with Xu Zhiyuan.
She opened the box of words that had been sealed for many years, told all kinds of mental journeys, and confessed that when her father still rejected the warmth she longed for in a hard tone, she thought that she really could not fulfill her wishes.
However, perhaps life is always unexpected, when Hao Lei's father physically examined a benign tumor, she saw that the father who had been strong and majestic all his life changed unexpectedly, becoming obedient and cooperative.
She tried to comfort her father in a warm tone, but found that what she said was so official.
The communication with her father has always been cold and simple Hao Lei, and she cannot change the communication style that her father passed on to her.
Seeing that his father suddenly began to show weakness, the crux of the backlog in Hao Lei's heart for half a lifetime was thus released, and looking at his seriously ill father, he couldn't help but want to cry.
Recently, a group of photos of Hao Lei and her new boyfriend revealed her emotional dynamics.
In the photo, she looks plump and relaxed, accompanied by her boyfriend and son, and looks in a good mood, no different from an ordinary middle-aged woman who goes out on a date.
Hao Lei's body management is also a rare "liberal" in the entertainment industry, and she seems to not mind the requirements of the outside world when she is fat and thin.
With the passage of time, Hao Lei paid more attention to her current life.
In addition to the pursuit of performance has not changed, Hao Lei has always maintained a sober attitude of wanting to be an ordinary person outside the play, and does not want her private life to be over-consumed.
Such a kind and cheerful, independent and enterprising actor never seems to have worried about the future, nor do he have to worry about age. After reconciliation with life, Hao Lei's story will have a more exciting sequel.