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Author: Seven Seven
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The author Junzi Yize wrote in the book "The Moon Is Falling, the Sea Blossoms": "Feelings are really the thing that whoever moves his heart first and loves a little more will lose a mess."
There is a truth to thinking about it, in the world of emotions, once who loves more, it means who loses. However, even so, love is still the most yearning and most eager thing for each of us in our hearts.
Especially when you are deeply involved in a relationship, when you fall in love with someone, you are willing and heartfelt. Even the more rational men are like this, especially when a man falls in love with a woman and has a woman in his heart, it is always easy to become afflicted, and he is often very afraid that the woman will leave him, worried that he will lose the woman.
In the final analysis, all of this is because men really love women, and they really care about women, and they really can't do without women, so they become insecure.
And in front of women, no matter what men do, or what to say is so careful, cautious in words and deeds, afraid that where they are not doing well enough, provoking women to be angry and angry, afraid that women will hate themselves, feel disappointed in themselves, and will directly leave themselves.
Therefore, men will always worry that they are not good enough for women, worried that they do not love women enough, will want to desperately be good to women, want to let women stay by their side, and even sometimes excessively nervous and care about women, even women feel pressure and restraint in their own hearts.
You know, men are afraid of losing you, there will be these four abnormal performances, can not be wrong!
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When I can't contact you, my heart will be very anxious
In fact, in the feelings, when a man falls in love with a woman, there will naturally be a woman's existence in his heart, and from then on, men will think about women, and they will always be tempted to contact women, want to know where women are, want to know what women are doing, why not contact themselves?
Even sometimes, when women have no time to contact men because they have something to be busy, they can't look at the messages sent by men to themselves, or when the reply to men's messages is slow, men's hearts will begin to feel anxious and nervous, and they will send several messages to women at once.
If women do not reply to their own words, the heart will be more and more anxious, even fidgeting, directly call the woman, if the woman does not answer their own phone, the man will continue to call again and again, until the woman answers her own phone, once the woman answers the man's phone, the man will be nervous to ask the woman east and west, why not reply to their own messages, why answer the phone until now, do not know that they will be very worried?
Only when the man confirms that the woman has not had any accidents, and then is now somewhere, doing something, only because the mobile phone is out of battery or did not see the message did not reply to the man, the man's heart in the heart can be put down, can be assured to hang up the woman's phone.
It is precisely because men love women too much, care too much about women, so they are easy to become nervous at once, always know the woman's news, even if the woman just returns the message slowly, men will feel anxious, uncertain, always worried and afraid of women, whether there is any accident, or encountered something, otherwise why not reply to their own messages, do not answer their own phones? This is probably what a true love person will look like!
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Possessive and dislike excessive contact between you and the other opposite sex
Gender psychology has said above, "love" is to make a person possessive of another person, especially for male creatures caught in love, when a man likes a woman and has each other in his heart, he will become very afraid of losing each other.
Therefore, men will show a very strong possessiveness of women, for example, in addition to themselves, do not like women and other opposite sex friends excessive contact, do not like women and other opposite sex friends to chat and talk, do not like women and other opposite sex friends alone.
Once men see women and other friends of the opposite sex over-contact, they will be very angry, but also jealous, and sometimes, men will take advantage of women's inattention, peek at women's chat records, the woman's mobile phone often chat and talk to the opposite sex are all deleted and blocked.
Maybe those people are just male colleagues in women's companies, or male customers in business contacts, or good brothers who women grew up with, although men also know the relationship between you, but men just love women too much, care too much about women, so they will be insecure and will do this.
But to be honest, the trust between men and women is really very important, so men still have to learn to give women a little more trust and give each other more space in their feelings, otherwise, I am afraid that they will go against their original intentions.
I like to stick to you every day and want to stay with you
We all know that loving someone is to want to see each other, is to want to stay with them, as long as two people can be together, even if they are in a daze together, they will feel very happy and sweet.
So in a relationship, when a man loves a woman, loves you to the bone, loves you to the point of being inseparable from you, and even loves you to the point of going crazy, then men will want to stick to women every day, that is, they want to stay with women, and they don't need to let women leave themselves half a step.
To put it mildly, it is like sticking to a woman like a dog skin plaster, 24 hours a day, I always can't help but want to contact women, and no matter where the woman wants to go, if she wants to do anything, she must first report to the man.
Otherwise men will continue to contact women, such as calling women, sending messages, anyway, it is constantly bombarding women, until they can get the exact location of women, men will let women go.
In fact, in my opinion, it is very normal for a small couple who are now in love, two people want to stay together every day, tired and crooked, and do not want to separate at all, but the two sexes should also pay attention to leaving a little space for each other.
If two people stick too much and are easy to get tired in advance, or if one party controls the other party too much, causing the other party to lose his personal space and feel that he has no freedom, then sooner or later, the man will still lose the woman, just like flying a kite, if the line is dragged too tightly, the kite will break.
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No matter what you say, he will obey
When a man has true feelings for a woman and cannot help but love a woman deeply, then the man will become very respectful of the woman, become very obedient to the woman, listen very much to the woman, and even no matter what the woman says, the man will obey.
Men just love women too much, they will listen to women's words, and they are even more reluctant to let women get angry, hurt a little, and suffer a little grievance, that is true love. And the more men love women, the more they tend to appear humble, which is the same in feelings, regardless of whether men or women.
Because men are afraid that women will leave themselves, afraid that they will lose women, so men will be willing to obey women, will be willing to listen to women all the time, as if with a little pleasing to women, pleasing women' feelings, men do this purpose, just do not want to disappoint women, hope that women can pay more attention to themselves, can be good to themselves, two can always be good together, do not want to let women leave themselves.
But men don't forget that love must be mutual, and the love that cannot be sustained and pleasing by one party alone cannot last long, and the more men blindly please and cater to women, the more likely it is to lose women in the end, the more they cannot get the heart of women.
After all, female friends will not like the kind of man who is too cowardly, too obedient to himself, and does not have half his own opinion, so in love, men should respect women, but also listen to women's words, but also pay attention to a degree, grasp the measure, do not go too far!
The writer Zhang Ailing once wrote such a sentence, "People always feel happy when they are close to happiness, but they suffer from gains and losses when happiness is carried out." ”
Deeply believed, maybe true love is like this, the more afraid of losing, the more careful, the more will be doubly cherished.
As the saying goes, love is armor, but also a weakness, when you really love a person, you will be afraid of losing each other, worried about the other party leaving themselves, so as to turn this feeling into their own weakness, once you lose each other, you will feel pain, as if you have lost the whole world.
Just here to remind all men, you may think that you will do this all because of the deep love of women, but it is not clear that some of your practices have been too much, has caused trouble to women, according to this, women will not be able to withstand this heavy love, and finally will choose to leave you fiercely, so you must pay attention, everything is still not too much, love is the same!
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