A person's words and deeds at home determine whether the family is happy or painful.
Some people feel that the people in the family should spoil and endure themselves, so they are unscrupulous at home, disrespecting their lovers, as if the other party is their own slave, or treating the other party as their own nanny, but also have absolute control over the family.
If you want to be happy and sweet in family life, you must do a good job in the three commandments:
First Commandment: Infidelity
Many people, when they get married, are very happy and warm, for a long time, it seems that there is no enthusiasm and passion, and they always feel that the other half is a too ordinary person, as if the past time has really passed, and love is gone.
Cheating becomes natural and often justifies myself: I just made the mistakes that all men (women) make.
It sounds like an easy thing to do, but it's an unforgivable and unforgivable shameful act.
Love marriage and family are based on loyalty, without loyalty, marriage has no need to continue, late departure is not as good as early departure, long pain is not as good as short pain.
After a long time, is there really no love?
In fact, when you are used to being with a person, accustomed to his existence, it is not that there is no passion and passion, but that enthusiasm and passion have been sublimated, become your flesh and blood, become your breath and inhale, become your smile, become all that is similar between you.
It is not that there is no love, but that love melts into the blood, into life, into the soul.
It's just that some people are too ignorant, too pedantic and too bad, and they just make excuses.
The so-called love will disappear, which can only show that he is selfish and self-loving, but does not love you, may not love at the beginning, just for the sake of profit for the purpose or a helpless choice.
Second Commandment: Insulting elders
Parents are the benefactors who gave birth to us, the nobles who raised us, and the great people who educated us.
As a child, no matter what kind of mistakes you make, no matter how much you should scold and hate, you can't insult each other's parents.
Many people have their own small world after marriage, in order to live a good life in a small family, anxious to separate from their parents, often while taking advantage of their parents, while also asking less about their parents' affairs, some people work in other cities, and their care for their parents is in the circle of friends.
The life of a small family is not good, it is a problem of two people, people who like to complain about each other's parents have no money, no power and no power are shameful, the original family has provided the basis for development to the greatest extent, and it is rare to have their own incompetence but like to blame their parents.
Two people who do not manage a good marriage blame each other's parents, which is also ignorance.
Although many people are not very good to their parents, they cannot accept the insults or insults of others to their parents, so because they insult their elders without covering their mouths, it is easy to cause a gap between two people, and it is too late to regret it.
The Third Commandment: Domestic Violence
Marriage is not a war, many people like to compete at home, the family as a battlefield, must occupy the high ground to win, quarrel but scold, scold but fight, and finally fight, smash things and smash the house, gain more than loss, win the fight and lose love.
Domestic violence people are very shameful, some people pretend to be hypocritical outside, flaunting their might at home, in fact, bullying soft and afraid of hard, violence can not solve the problem at all, just a moment of speed, impulsiveness is not nurtured, ignorant and shameless, even if the other party is knocked unconscious, beaten stupid, it is not necessarily the other party will give in, but hatred, a hair can not be received.
Husbands and wives are equal, husbands are not donkeys, nor are they cash cows, it is not easy for wives to cherish their husbands, wives are not nannies, nor are they servants, and it is not easy for husbands to cherish their wives.
When you're young, love is greater than anything.
After middle age, the passion fades, the enthusiasm is gone, and love is the responsibility and the responsibility.
Where there is love, there is dedication, there is happiness, and there is happiness.
Happiness is not how big the house is, but how sweet the laughter in the room is; happiness is not how luxurious the car can be driven, but how safe the car can be; happiness is not how beautiful the lover is, but how bright the lover's smile is.
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