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You're already great, and certainly deserve to be loved | Chengyi
I once saw such a topic on the hot search:
"What kind of girls are the most overwhelmed by the boys?"
The highest praise answer was as follows:
"When I became an adult, I found that girls with patterns are the treasures of the world."
This pattern does not lie in her latest lipstick number, nor in the jewelry she wears.
And it comes from her countless self-confidence and innate attitude towards feelings.
Girls with these three patterns are so charming.
Roses are inherently worthy of love
My friend Kiki once dated such a girl.
The two saw each other as they were, and they talked very happily.
Girls will intimately give Kiki a dish, and will also smile at the camera when Kiki helps her take pictures.
After the end, Kiki sent her slightly drunk to the door of the community and told the girl to talk to herself when she got home.
Unexpectedly, the girl sent a message two hours later:
"I'm sorry, I just went to take a bath, so I'll rest early."
Later, when we met again, we learned that the girl was not in a hurry to report to Kiki after she returned home.
Instead, pack yourself up first.
Take a shower, skincare, pour a glass of goodnight, and then pick up your phone to message Kiki.
Kiki was deeply attracted by this calmness.
Just like there is a line in the Japanese drama "Escape from Shame but Useful":
"If you like someone, you will become very uneasy and become less like yourself."
The feet flutter lightly, and if there is no one to support it, you can't go anywhere. ”
Yes, there is no shortage of girls in this world who go to the soup for love and are low to the dust.
But some girls,
No matter how much you like a person, you will have reservations, calm and elegant.
Just like the noblewoman Huang Rose in Yishu's "The Story of the Rose", she is also noble and reserved in the face of love without knowing it.
She has also fallen into love, but she is not overwhelmed, but light and indifferent.
"Whether you love me or not, I have received enough love in this life."
She does not change for anyone, and never carefully pleases anyone, but adds more charm and charm.
In the end, it also made the countless men who had admired her sigh:
"Roses are inherently worthy of love."
Let the romance take its course
I also remembered the line in the movie "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much":
"Girls who are not confident tend to pay too much attention to their dating performance, but they are most likely to fail in dating."
There is always such a class of girls, who tremble after every date, thinking left and right.
Once the other person does not show interest in continuing to communicate, they begin to doubt themselves.
I also talked about this topic with my good friend Anna.
As a dating veteran in the circle of friends, Anna is very relaxed about every date.
"Dating is not about falling in love, and it's good to make friends."
Even if she doesn't end up in a romantic relationship with each other, Anna can always be friends with them.
She doesn't expect anything in advance for every date.
It's about letting romantic things happen naturally.
She can go to the wetland park to watch swans after dinner with the heartwarming boy, and she can also stop the loss in time when facing objects that are not interested.
In the face of unknown romantic stories, Anna always retains a pleasant mood, but does not have too much definition of the relationship.
Such a girl is so charming.
It is precisely because she has had enough love that she can act easily and freely in front of love.
As Kore-eda says in his film:
"The most attractive woman is the one who looks the least ambitious."
Not all love is in line with expectations
Zhang Ailing once said:
"The person you like is your naked taste."
But some girls can be indifferent to the bad tastes of boys.
Arlene is recognized as the most tasteful girl in the office, but her boyfriend is a programmer who doesn't look out loud.
But Arlene did not think so, she cooked hot red wine on Christmas Eve, and did not forget the type of popular red wine with her boyfriend.
Arlene's attitude to life makes her boyfriend start to change himself.
He began to pay attention to dressing, groping for clothes that suited him, and even studied perfume.
Arlene saw the change in her boyfriend and realized that she did not love the wrong person.
"Boys' tastes can be changed, and not all love must be in line with expectations in advance."
Yeah, a lot of straight men live simply and roughly before they fall in love.
It is important to give the other party enough respect and tolerance in the process of running-in.
Such a girl exudes a gentle and powerful aura, which makes people fascinated.
It's really too comfortable to fall in love with a girl with a pattern.
Because any intimate relationship depends on mutual attraction, not on perfection.
Believe that you are loved, and believe that you have the ability to love others.
Since then, there have been swaying postures, thousands of styles, and the person who is destined to be on the road.
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