What does a family of origin mean to a woman? In fact, it is likely to be the self that everyone has spent their entire life pursuing. At least, in Camilla, Queen of United Kingdom, we see the importance of a family's spoiled daughter.
Yes, a loving family of origin is a woman's innate self-confidence, but unfortunately Diana did not, she was abandoned by her mother since she was a child, was regarded as a superfluous person by her father, became her brother's "nanny", and finally lost her life in a loveless marriage.
Camilla is different, her life experience is full of love and pampering, and full of signals of self-respect. When she first met Charles, she said, "My great-grandmother was your great-grandfather's mistress, what do you think?" ”
At the time, Charles was stunned, but also shocked, he thought the girl was funny, bold and real.
But what he didn't know was that Camilla had been like this since she was a child, and she once said to her classmates in elementary school:
"My great-grandmother was Edward VII's mistress, and I adore her!"
What does this mean? Camilla never regarded being someone's lover as ugly, on the contrary, it was an honor to find a lover with high status and wealth. And it was her family of origin that conveyed this idea to her.
At Camilla's family, her father was a World War II veteran who retired with the rank of major. But his childhood was not happy, his mother was abandoned by his father, and he grew up with his grandfather and grandmother.
In World War II, Camilla's father, Bruce, was awarded the Cross twice for his military exploits, which means that he was martial and very aggressive and brave. Half of Camilla's "tomboy" personality is to his credit.
After Camilla was born, Bruce has been teaching his daughter: you are right, you just have to do it, there is something I have. This image of a daughter slave who loves her daughter is simply in stark contrast to Diana's father.
And where does Camila's high emotional intelligence come from, which will please men? I'm afraid I have to mention her mother, Ms. Rosalinde. She comes from an aristocratic family, her father is a baron, and Alice happens to be her grandmother.
Rosalinde's mother told her:
"Not only did your grandmother have a gift for joy, but she was good at making others happy, she was like a Christmas tree full of gifts for everyone."
After Camilla was born, Rosalinde took pride in it and repeatedly taught her daughter the skills of dating.
Look at her five-year-old appearance, the flower girl who was taken by her mother to attend someone else's wedding, with big eyes, confident and determined, holding the hand of another little girl, and her face was full of wit.
It was in this environment that Camilla became a lively, sunny and very open girl in the family.
At the age of 16, she was sent to Switzerland to study, and then transferred to France after half a year because she did not like Switzerland.
At the age of 18, Bruce threw a very big coming-of-age ball for Camilla and introduced her as a socialite to a banker's heir.
People who attended Camilla's ball said: Although Camilla was only 18 years old at the time, she was not shy at all, on the contrary, she would say very funny things, she was not beautiful, but she had the charm of others.
In fact, Camilla is a spoiled child by her parents, she can stand with her boss at work, her bedroom is like a pig's nest, she has learned gardening and fishing, she has learned to draw and learn other things, in short, she is only interested in new things.
Bruce taught his daughter to ride horses and taught her to deal with men, something that Diana could not understand anyway. It was Camilla like this that made Charles completely incapacitated.
The most interesting thing is that even though my daughter is already a handful of years, Bruce still stands behind my daughter: it was Charles who seduced my daughter, which in itself was Diana's fault, and she affected my daughter's love......
You see, how can Camila not be confident in such a native family, and how can she not be step by step? When there is wind and rain, she doesn't need to think about how to support herself at all, naturally someone shelters her from the wind and rain.
After the "Danbes" incident, Bruce stood up and demanded that Charles leave his daughter, and faced public opinion that it was the crown prince who seduced Camilla.
Interestingly, Camilla's sister and brother also supported her, believing that it was not her fault.
suddenly thought of Diana, when she was hurt in her marriage for 15 years, when she was forced to divorce by the queen, her mother, who had not raised her or taken care of her, scolded her: like a prostitute ~ girl.
The father went to confront the prince for his daughter, but her mother flattered her for power, so there is no need to compare, right? Camila's family of origin is too important to her, and 100% of her happiness in life comes from the influence of her family of origin.
It's a pity that Diana didn't understand, and William and Harry also had a hard time understanding, so to this day, their lives are terrible.
On the contrary, Camilla became the queen, forcibly washed the white character, and rode on the head of Diana's child to make a threat, what a contrast!