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On January 1, 2022, the Family Education Promotion Law was officially implemented, which shows that we have also entered the era of "bringing babies according to law".
Some people joke that this is even more afraid to have children, it is not easy to raise children, and now how to "bring" it is also the law to manage, it is too difficult to be a parent!
Is this really the case?
In fact, to have such an idea is a misreading of the Promotion Law.
◆ Legislation is to help parents "correct deviations", not to punish parents
Many parents feel that with the law, they dare not manage their children, for fear of being "educated", in fact, the purpose of the "Family Education Promotion Law" is to help parents correct biased behavior, rather than punishing parents.
For example, if parents do not use the right method of educating their children, there will be relevant people coming to the home to urge persuasion and explain how to really educate the child, but they will not punish the parents more fiercely, but will provide advice.
◆ What can the legislation help parents?
"Parental involvement" may alleviate the situation of "widowed parenting"
The Family Education Promotion Act has the initiative of "parents sharing and raising children together", which is a good thing for families who are mainly responsible for the parenting and education of their children.
You know, most of the people who bear the responsibility of raising babies are women, and they are moms, whether moms work or stay at home full-time.
Weird, huh?
I added several parenting groups, some specializing in children's learning, there are also focused on children's psychology, usually discussed, the group summary, reflection is mostly Bao Mom, occasionally appear a father, everyone feels very strange.
I don't know if women are naturally prone to anxiety, or more self-motivated, anyway, after women have babies, then Buddhist mothers will "fight" for their children.
And Bao Dad, perhaps because of busy work, maybe because of lack of awareness, or different life concepts, more advocating "with the encounter and peace", they often look at the big cause of bao mom's chicken baby, and even some will take the opportunity to strike when bao mom's emotional collapse, "I said earlier, you can't do this."
Of course, the chicken baby is not correct, but passing legislation to make another person in the family who is less involved in child-rearing also active, not only conducive to family stability, but also conducive to the physical and mental growth of children.
Through supervision and guidance, parents can help them understand the direction of parenting
In this era when urban parents are generally chicken babies, some rural parents may still be working hard for the parenting of the second and third children, and their understanding of children's early education and children's psychology is weak.
Even many parents still follow the "stick dafa" of the older generation - children are disobedient, just beat up.
In such cases, the Promotion Act can play a very positive role.
In short, parents "bringing a baby according to law" does not mean that "not bringing a baby or improperly carrying a baby will be punished by law", but "if the parents do not take the baby correctly, there will be relevant units to help you promote the baby".
Therefore, there is no need to panic or even fear breeding. After all, in this widely involved society, I believe that many parents still have more than enough and insufficient strength for how to bring a baby, at this time, the "Family Education Promotion Law" can help parents better carry the baby and help their children grow from the aspect of physical and mental health, which is a great thing.
Of course, the new law has only been promulgated for a few days, and we will wait and see how it will be implemented in the future.
Senior nursery, psychological counselor. Understand the parenting and psychology, but also pay attention to the self-growth and family management of baoma, and strive to be the intimate person of mothers.
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