Author: Number One Emotion
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In the world of emotions, men are most afraid of not being able to guess women's minds, because they are very good at hiding their emotional attitudes, while women are most afraid of "non-scum or waves" men, because they are the best at playing with feelings.
Love for women, is a particularly important thing in life, meet the right partner to have the rest of the happiness, but if you meet a hypocritical, non-scummy or wave of men, not only can not feel the sweetness in love, and even will be ruthlessly hurt and abandoned.
In fact, a man's "non-slag or wave" is a sign, even if he hides deeply, the feelings paid on the surface are sincere, it will still be exposed in many details, of course, this also requires women to observe carefully enough.
Generally speaking, men who are "not scum or waves" mostly have these 3 characteristics, and women advise you to stay away.
There are ambiguous contacts with other members of the opposite sex
To see whether a man has given sincere feelings to you, the most critical place is whether he regards you as the only one in his life and whether he is willing to stay away from other members of the opposite sex for you.
If a man not only does not stay away from other members of the opposite sex for you, but has ambiguous contacts with them, either meeting privately behind your back or chatting behind your back, these performances are the best proof of his "non-slag or waves".
If a man loves you deeply enough, and the feelings he gives are sincere and single-minded enough, then he will definitely stay away from other members of the opposite sex for you, on the one hand, he does not want to have contact with other members of the opposite sex, on the other hand, he takes into account your mood, and is worried that getting too close to the opposite sex will make you uncomfortable.
Therefore, to see whether a man is "not scum or waves", the key lies in how he interacts with the opposite sex, if he has been in a state of ambiguity, it is obviously a manifestation of "slag", at this time women can grasp away.
Attitudes towards love are often ambiguous
Since he is a "scumbag", he will naturally not be responsible for the so-called love, even if he has come together with you, his attitude towards love is still unpredictable, and he has always been ambiguous.
To put it bluntly, he is thinking of himself as a spare tire in love, although the mouth does not directly explain, but from his attitude towards love, there must be other ideas in his heart, such as finding a better girl than you, but at the moment you are his best choice.
If there are better people in your future life than you, you will naturally become a substitute for others, maybe at this time you realize that you are a "spare tire", but at this moment, even if you are no matter how sober, you still have to pay for it.
Women should be clear that the man who truly loves you will not be ambiguous in love, since you have chosen you, you will always love, will not open their relationship to the outside world, and will continue to care for you, looking forward to having a happy future life with you.
Often send some circle of friends that hints that they are single
The biggest feature of a "scumbag" is that he does not admit that he is in love, even if he is already with you, he will still send some circle of friends that hints that he is single, in order to attract countless opposite sexes closer.
For this kind of man, they have no sense of responsibility in their feelings, and will not change their attitude because of your existence, although it is very hidden, but as long as you are smart and attentive enough, you can definitely detect the purpose of his circle of friends.
For a man who truly loves you, since he has chosen you, he will certainly not give other opportunities to the opposite sex, not to mention the circle of friends who often hint that he is single, even if the opposite sex takes the initiative to approach, he will be rejected, because after he has installed you in his heart, there will be no other person's position.
Women must not be blinded by the surface of men, love is to dare to open up the relationship between each other, and not love will give people a very vague feeling, in order to let more of the opposite sex close to themselves, then naturally will abandon you.
Write at the end
In a relationship, women invest far more emotions than men, once cheated feelings will inevitably bear more hurt, then no matter what you do is superfluous, can only watch the other party abandon you.
Therefore, women must stay away from this kind of "non-slag is the wave" of men, once found that they have the above characteristics and performance, the wisest choice is to stay away, after all, love depends on two people to maintain, if only you go to the side, in the end will only bear the hurt caused by this feeling.