As a language problem that has been in the top three of the language barrier rankings for many years, stuttering has always been the object of many people's talk, and it seems that stuttering will cause irreparable consequences once it appears. In fact, stuttering may not be as terrible as we think, but our worries and fears invisibly amplify it.
Of course, this does not mean that we should ignore stuttering. For any language problem, it is not too important to pay more attention, not to mention the very long history of stuttering. From ancient times to the present, I don't know how many celebrities have suffered from stuttering. Because of this, experts at the Chengdu Center tell us the fact that the harm caused by stuttering to children can only be solved by correction.
The negative impact of stuttering on children's growth
1. Self-closure
Stuttering children often shut themselves in a small world, isolated from the outside world, they refuse to contact strangers, but also try to avoid all people coming and going, and they will tremble and be afraid when they work, study and shop.
2. Depression and shyness
Depression and sullenness are a major character flaw of stutterers, who are left in loneliness, unhappiness, worry, sadness, disappointment and other emotions all day long due to the influence of stuttering. Not only that, they always care about what others say about themselves, so they always show a look of pity in front of people, and they can't show themselves generously.
3. Fear
This is one of the main psychological characteristics of stuttering children, who are not only extremely afraid of talking and communicating, but also try to avoid talking, avoid communication, cover up their stuttering, and subconsciously isolate themselves from the outside world. This is manifested by various phobias, such as social phobia, phone phobia, and so on.
4. Inferiority and cowardice
Most stutterers are very inferior, in life, study will feel that they are inferior to people everywhere, at the same time, due to the influence of stuttering, so they often form a cowardly and fearful personality, bullying and dare not protect themselves.
Knowing the four types of stuttering can help parents spot stuttering in a timely manner
The impact of stuttering on children is often profound, and even accompanies a lifetime, becoming a nightmare that can never be erased. But can we change our stuttering and talking? Of course, stuttering correction can be done. However, before stuttering correction, parents should first figure out the type of stuttering their children, so that it is convenient to help their children.
1. Stuttering with hairstyles
When speaking, there is often a problem with a certain word or a certain word, usually after the beginning of the breath or after the pause, such as "I, I, I want to go".
2. Difficult to stutter
This is one of the more serious types of stuttering, which is mainly manifested in the fact that a sentence may be thought about many times in the mind, but it is difficult to open it when it is time to open it. Therefore, many difficult-to-hair stutterers speak every time, not only are they anxious himself, but the people next to him are also anxious for him.
3. Medium resistance stuttering
The small half sentence of the opening can be said more clearly every time I speak, but as soon as I get to the middle, the "middle road collapses", such as "Yesterday I wanted to go, go, go to the park" .
4. Mixed stuttering
The doped stuttering sounds obvious, that is, stutterers tend to incorporate meaningless words when they speak, which makes people hear something cloudy, such as "I (ah) want to (ah) go (ah)".
In addition to professional stuttering correction, Chengdu experts teach you to help your child at home
Chengdu expert tips: In addition to selecting professional language institutions for children, we can also carry out appropriate language recovery training at home to avoid stereotyping children's language status and forming deep-rooted wrong habits. So, here are two small ways to teach you:
1. Parents should pay attention to alleviating their children's inner anxiety
Most stuttering groups actually have a sense of mental anxiety and inferiority in their hearts, on the one hand, they are worried that they will not be able to speak normally in this life, but they want to make stuttering get better quickly; on the other hand, many stuttering people are more sensitive when talking to normal people, and they always feel that they stutter, and people will look down on him.
Therefore, parents should encourage and encourage their children at home, tell them that they are the best, that language lag and mistakes are only temporary, and let children psychologically not distinguish themselves from others.
2. Change the way you speak and the rhythm
Careful observation of stuttering crowds will find that most of them will use a particularly urgent tone of voice when they speak or talk, and they are worried about the impact of their speech card by card, so they unconsciously speed up. But the faster they click, the more times they stutter, and when they pick up a sentence, they often repeat a few words, and then the sentence is intermittent, which is very puzzling when people listen.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to the tone and rhythm of his speech when communicating with their children at home, not to slow down the speed of speech, but to make the child's expression have a sense of rhythm, so as to avoid being interrupted, but also to play a good auxiliary role in the language intervention of language agencies.
Finally, I want to tell you that stuttering is not terrible, I am afraid that we will lose our courage as soon as we encounter it, and the correct way is to face stuttering and believe that we can solve this problem.