What is the sense of ceremony?
The French fairy tale "The Little Prince" explains the sense of ritual with such a sentence: it is to make a certain day different from other days, to make a certain moment different from other moments.
Many festivals have a special sense of ceremony, such as eating zongzi during the Dragon Boat Festival and eating dumplings during the Spring Festival, which is the sense of ritual of the festival.
With continuous development and progress, people become busy, and these senses of ceremony gradually disappear, of course, not only the sense of ritual of the festival, but also some of the sense of ritual in life.
Little tomato this year to read the first grade, for the child, this is her first time to really enter the school door, learn the real thing, because the parents are busy at work, into the first grade of the little tomato did not get a new school bag, after the school issued a new book, no one to the child wrapped the book cover, seriously write the name, see other children have a new school bag, the book is also wrapped in a beautiful book cover, the little tomato heart is very uncomfortable, she is very envious of these children.
There was a little girl's birthday in the class On the third day after the start of school, the little girl's parents came to school, brought a birthday cake to the little girl, and also brought a small cookie to all the classmates, and on the day of the little tomato's birthday, the father went on a business trip, the mother was working overtime, and she did not get a happy birthday.
Little Tomato is very hurt, she feels that her parents do not love her, when other children talk about what gifts their parents have sent, Little Tomatoes never talks.
If life lacks a sense of ceremony, the child's happiness will be greatly reduced, and they will even doubt the love of parents and mothers, after all, children are simple, and they need to see the importance of their parents from some sense of ceremony.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to the sense of ceremony given to their children and cultivate their children's sense of ceremony from an early age.
What impact does cultivating a sense of ritual from an early age have on children?
First, increase your child's love of life
When the child takes the first place, you can take the child out to eat, praise the child, when the child sleeps at night, you can give the child a goodnight kiss, so that the child sleeps more sweetly.
If children encounter difficulties in the future and are depressed about life, they will think of these beautiful things in life, motivate them to move forward bravely, and pick up their love for life again.
Second, it can enhance the child's sense of responsibility
The sense of ceremony can not be cultivated in a day or two, it must persist for a long time, just like the sense of ritual of some festivals, which must be carried out at a fixed time every year.
If children persist in these rituals, their sense of responsibility will be enhanced, and they will take the completion of these rituals as their responsibility, and they will not neglect them at all.
Children develop such a habit, for other things will naturally have a sense of responsibility, insist on completing, many things fail not because the child is bad, but because the child gave up halfway.
Third, improve the child's sense of happiness
Little Potato's father often goes abroad for business, every time he returns to China he will bring gifts to Little Potato, when the child's birthday, he will also take time out of his busy schedule to say birthday wishes to the child with the child video, and prepare gifts for the child.
The gifts from the father make the little potato very happy, even if these gifts are just a bookmark, a book, but he is very happy, he can feel the love from the father, every time he plays with other children, the little potato will be very happy to tell other children, this is my father gave me.
Pay attention to the sense of ceremony to the child will make the child feel love and happiness, improve the child's sense of happiness, the child is easy to satisfy, a small item can make them happy for half a day, so every parent should pay attention to the time of the festival, the child's birthday, or a certain day is very important for the child, we must prepare a sense of ceremony to the child, so that the child understands that parents have always been there and have always loved you.
Soon it will be China's traditional New Year, that is, the Spring Festival, the Spring Festival is a festival full of rituals, every household sets off firecrackers, visits relatives and friends to visit the New Year, and children wear new clothes and take red envelopes.
Some elders or parents will also give books to their children, hoping that children can read more books in the new year, so what books are suitable for giving to children in the New Year?
The pop-up book "Our Festival Chinese New Year" recommended by Xiao C is a good choice, the festive big red, coupled with a variety of lifelike standing paintings, let the children love it at first sight.
This book is even more interesting, and unlike ordinary books, this book takes the form of standing paintings, and the vivid standing paintings make children full of curiosity and thus entertain themselves.
Children feel a variety of display methods such as three-dimensional, pulling pages, organs, DIY, pictures, and texts through their own hands, and understand the sense of ritual in traditional Chinese festivals.
There are also many words on the books, which increase the child's hands-on ability and also let the child know many new words, so that the child can learn in happiness.
Giving a child a book is also a sense of ceremony during the Spring Festival, and when the child sees this book in the future, he will think of the expectations of the elders for himself, and he will also think of the happiness when he first met this book, and increase the happiness of the child.